I am struggling with this dear Pixies, and I find myself turning to you all to express what I am feeling but cannot really express to anyone other than Cobalt.

I received a phone call this morning as I was getting ready for work from a friend/co-worker this morning about another friend/co-worker.

She and I had been worried about this friend for a while - she had been appearing tired and run down the past couple of weeks and was experiencing what we thought was either the flu or hopefully not the return of her cancer she went thru and beat a little over a year ago. We both had been encouraging her to go to the doctor and she didn't (no insurance). Finally, she did go and her potassium levels were really low and she was extreemly dehydrated. The local hospital kept her overnight and rehydrated her and then sent her home the next day. She stayed home for a couple of days and then last night around 11:00 p.m., drove her 3 daughters to her friend/babysitter and dropped them off and then drove herself to the local hospital.

At 11:30 p.m., she experienced her first cardiac arrest. The local hospital called for the life flight helecopter, but it wasn't available so they put her in an ambulance and drove her to the major hospital that was 50 minutes away (if going 70 mph). On the way, shortly after leaving the local hospital a little after midnight, she expereinced her second cardiac arrest. They brought her back. About 15 minutes away from the major hospital, she experienced major cardiac arrest and they couldn't bring her back.

She was 34 years old.
She has 3 daughters - 1st grade, 4th grade and 9th grade.
Her husband wasn't at her side, but on his way to her (he is an over the road truck driver)

I can't seem to wrap my mind around this.

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A blessed thing it is for any man or woman to have a friend, one human soul whom we can trust utterly, who knows the best and worst of us, and who loves us in spite of all our faults.

Lesson #1 is a harsh one:

Living thing die, and there's nothing you can do about that finality.

Lesson #2:

How you deal with the death of living things emotionally close to you is largely dependent on how you live your own life.

Lesson #3:

Sometimes, people need hugs.
((Cheyanne))

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She must have been one special woman for God to go to such lengths to take her from us.

We all have our "time" to go.It sure would make life easier if we all knew "when".But , we don't and thus he relies on our FAITH IN HIM to make the right decision.

It was great to see you here again Chey . Perhaps next time it will be in times of joy

--jbh3

((hugs)) sometimes there is no sense to be made

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Just a reminder that all you have is "now", and how you use the now is the most important thing of all.

Rejoice in what she was and achieved, not what you perceive she missed out on.

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Calm, quiet, smooth, devastating

Thanks guys... this is all so fresh that I simply can't wrap my mind around it. My office is next to where she sits. I just have to look out my door and see her and I found myself working and running across stuff and looking out my door to tell her and she wasn't there.

This is the thrid parent in the district that has died all within 3 weeks. One auto accident, one suicide and now this. Grief counselors and area priests, ministers and pastors walked the halls all day

What I am taking away from this is what most would. Appreciate EVERYONE surrounding you - not just the people you like, but also the people you don't like so well because there are others who love that person and would miss them if they were gone. Be thankful for EVERYTHING that you have. When you think things can't get any worse it really can. If you want to do something then do it ... don't wait until next week, or the week after. I am sure that I will think of more, but you guys get the idea.

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A blessed thing it is for any man or woman to have a friend, one human soul whom we can trust utterly, who knows the best and worst of us, and who loves us in spite of all our faults.

I don't know that there is any single lesson to be taken from what has happened. About all I can say is that what you said is a very good foundation for all of us to consider. Life is a very uncertain thing at best and we really do have to appreciate everything and everyone that we have.

I'm so incredibly sorry Cheyanne.

(((((Cheyanne))))))

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It takes a gutless mouse to play only when the cat's away.

No love, no friendship, can cross the path of our destiny without leaving some mark on it forever. ~~ Francois Mocuriac

Confucius say, "He who masturbate into cash register come into money."

An optimist looks at the glass and says it's half full. A pessimist looks at the glass and says it's half empty. A Cubs fan looks at the glass and says, "When's it gonna spill?"

Deus Impetitio Esuritori Nullus

((((((((((((((((Cheyanne))))))))))))))))))))

(((((Chey)))))))

Hold your loved ones a little bit closer, because you can.

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I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney