Hi Guys,
I havent posted in a while so no one really knows me, but here is my opinion anyway. Even though I'm not a girl, but all of my female friends tell me, it's not the length, it is the thickness. I also use the approach BoogieDown stated...as long as the woman cums, does it matter how big your member is???

I think that penis size;is the initial attraction factor.It's the same as if;a man sees two women.One has large& shapely breasts;the
other has small ones.Even tho;the one with the small ones;might be better sexually;he will probably;pick the one;with big breasts;
because that's what attracts him initially.If two men were side by side;a woman would probably pick the one with the largest penis!
As far as use;women have told me that in their experience;size
doesn't matter.Confidence;in what you're doing; is what matters
most but you don't realise that when you're young and pompous.
I'd like to go on;but at my age;all of this typing;is wearing me out.
It's all I can do;to stay on my soapbox. Irish

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sweet fuckin Buddha's bulbous belly... how many times is this arbitrary topic gonna resurface?

Uncle Silky---That's not Buddhas Bulbous Belly!That's his dick;wrapped around his waist;a few times! Irish

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in Thailand, they'd kill you with yer own shoes for sayin that.

Typical - you ask women a question on penis size and all the men want to comment. Just shows who its most important to.

http://penissizelinks.com/professional

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I have learned several things since I first started having sex 16 years ago.

One. There are very few men with penises larger than about 5 1/2 or six inches long. There is more variationin thickness than length.

The largest have ever experienced was at most 7, 7 1/2 inches, and I DID NOT measure it, that is just a guess.

Two. Yes a large, ( long or thick) is exciting, a turn on, when you first see it. Thicker penises, especially when they first enter you are VERY stimulating. The guy with the long thick penis actually hit my cervix with his tip during thrusting and IT HURT!

Three. Guys care more about size then most women.

Four. Small penises do offer some advantages to me, at least. They are easier and more comfortable to perform extended oral sex on, for example. and NO man with a "super penis" is having anal sex with me!!!

Five. A telanted, caring, clean, lover, whocares about your pleasure is preferable to "super penis" who thinks you should be greatful to experience him in bed.


Without any "penis envy"

WW

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In light of the TECHNIQUE / GSpot posting I suppose we should have a discussion on what is the ideal THUMB.

Do you ladies perefer long thumbs?
Short thumbs?
Gnarlie thumbs?
Black thumbs?
THICK thumbs?
Bumpy thumbs?
Curved thumbs?
Which RACE has the best thumbs?
Which NATIONALITY gives the best thumb?

Mr. 3G - ROFL -- great point (or maybe I should say - great pointer finger) lol

LOL-
The best thumbs are experienced thumbs, Mr. 3G, very experienced!

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Regarding size and oral technique:

My girlfriend says that she never liked giving head before me, because there was nothing to hang on to. Sucking while supporting th base with two fingers wasn't satisfying. Now she can suck as deep as she wants and also give a good hand motion on the shaft. She won't leave the thing alone!!

Of course she can't take the whole length down her throat, but she definitely votes that size matters when giving head.

Sorry to bring this up after such a long time, but....
If it doesn't matter, why would a guy need to "compensate" for having a dick 4 inches long?

>If it doesn't matter, why would a guy need to "compensate" for having a dick 4 inches long?<

He doesn't. The problem is if he feels *insecurity* from having a small cock, and feel he needs to compensate by having a pompus attitude or something.

However, there is compensating and there's compensating. I have one ex lover who had a small cock, and he *compensated* by being superb with both his hands and his tongue with oral sex.

BTW, a guy with a very large cock can have comfortable anal sex with you if he's gentle, and doesn't enter you when fully erect.

Too big though, becomes a *real* problem. I've never had a problem with about 8 1/2 inches or so, but when I had someone who was 11 inches and a HUGE girth, we had a HUGE problem. Quite simply, we never managed penetration. He couldn't get into me! I could give him head, but I had to do it French style - that is, keeping it outside of my mouth and licking it. It would not fit in my mouth either.

BTW, our breakup had nothing to do with that.

Yes, it matters! It is NOT "the size of the wave, but the motion of the ocean..." How can ya feel the motion, when ya can't even feel the wave????

And, I agree, just because he is big, does NOT mean he is rockin' my boat....Gotta have rhythm. What they say is true...you can tell a lot about how a guy moves in bed, by the way he moves on the dance floor.....


I also don't think length is the only factor, you gott have width also. I don't think I know the exact measurement of the perfect dick....but I do know when he doesn't "measure up!"

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lizH---Did the guy with the 11" die from:
1:Lack of exercise;from lack of activity;from him sitting around;
getting head?
2:Sprained back;from carrying all of that weight around?
I'm sure that there are pros&cons;but that doesn't sound like
a bad choice;to a male!The biggest problem;for him;would be
finding pants with enough room in the crotch! Irish
P.S.3:Heart attack;from getting head; all of the time!

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