Being the new guy here, I decided to start my own thread. What kind of experiences with sex define your sexual life?

I have two very big moments. The first, when i was 13 and learning that you can use the back massager for something other than a sore muscle

The other moment was when I was 20. I met this lady on yahoo. She was 48 and had a son older than me. She lived about 2 miles from my house. We talked for a few weeks, and then she invited me over to her apartment. I knew why I was going over there, and was quite excited. When I showed up she was wearing a lowcut T-shirt. We talked about sex for 10 minutes maybe. Then I told her I did something special for her. I knew that she liked bald eagles, so i shaved beforehand. I pulled out my penis and let her look at it. She said I did a pretty good job, and sucked on it for a few minutes. She led me into the bedroom, and asked if she could touch up the spot i missed. I said sure. so she lathered down the stuff i missed. I also let her shave the hair off my balls. After we finished she got up on the bed with me, and I think we kissed some, and I sucked on her huge breasts. Then I went down on her. Never before, and not since then have i tasted such a sweet pussy. It was like sugar water. I ate her out for what seemed like 15 minutes or more. before she told me too stop, and fuck her. So I fucked her doggy-style for awhile. I lost track of the orgasms she had. I was unable to climax during sex for quite some time, but she rather enjoyed it. After quite some time, she asked for some anal sex, so I obliged. The Defining moment came, when fucking her in the ass, I rubbed her clit for a few moments. She ejaculated all over my hand. I kept on going, until she had her fill of cock. She layed me down and gave me the best BJ ive ever recieved. And made sure not miss a drop. Too bad I never went back over.

I think she taught me more about sex than anyone else. I realized then, that giving oral sex, is the greatest pleasure in the world, not only for the person giving, but the person recieving.

With my GF I routinely make her orgasm during oral sex at least once when we are together. The only thing that ever stops me, is my jaw getting tired, but ive improved my technique, and now I can do it 2/3 times over a few days

Now that you have heard my defining moment, what are yours?

I would say the day I lost my virginity. I thought I was a woman! No, I may not have been a woman then, but I DID feel more grown up, sexually attractive, and knew I love sex.

The next would be when I had sex for the first time with a girl. It "consummated" my bisexuality you could say. Something I already knew I was, but hadn't yet experienced it sexually.

The last would be my first Gang-bang. What a blast!! I then knew how REALLY slutty and daring I am! I felt like I could do ANYTHING sexually! I was on TOP OF THE WORLD!!!

Ok, I'm calming down now. I had masturbated to orgasm about 45 mins. ago and I'm feeling GREAT now!

BTW, another great question. You new guys ROCK!

Id say the first time I experimented with ice during oral sex. My lover at the time and I were messing around and I was getting ready to go down on her. We'd been drinking a little, and I saw my glass, empty, except for a couple cubes of ice. I popped one in my mouth and began licking her and pressing the cube to her clit....OMG the orgasms she had! I slid the ice inside her and continued eating her, licking her clit, while me fingers guided the ice inside her, over her gspot until it was all melted and dripping out of her pussy.....mmmmmmm mmmmmmm mmmmmmmm
Ever since then, I have loved to "ice" my ladies every chance i get.

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Defining moment....

I have two.

The first time a finger played with my clit was a REAL eye opener.

The next defining moment was the discovery of just how incredible it was to have a mouth and fingers down below...having someone devote time to seeing that I had an orgasm.

Wow. I mean WOW.

Could be the moment a g/f (from long ago) looked me in the eye & told me to cum in her mouth...never thought anyone but porn stars would do that until then...

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Three moments in my sexual life define more about who and what I am, sexually, and as a person.
The usual things, my first orgasm, the loss of my virginity, are all important moments for me, but these 3 things have really defined me as a woman more than any others.
1. The night my college roommate seduced me, and I learned that I LOVED sex with other women!! Ever since I have defined myself as either bisexual or lesbian. ( but that never seems to last long)
2. The first time I had sex with more than one person in a single night. No I am NOT talking bout a 3 sum, but the night I had 3 different partners in a single night, each unaware of the other. It felt.... POWERFUL!! and very liberating.
3. And yes, my first 3sum! I loved being the center of attention, sandwiched between two sexy men who made me feel so ALIVE!!! I discovered a new level of sexual intensity, a level of orgasm that was so much more than I had ever had before.


These things are what have defined me most.

Always sexxually,

WW

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Altho My divorce in 1997 was a catalyst for the journey of self exploration (both intellectual and sexual) that has taught me many wonderful things (masturbation, exhibitionism, voyuerism, bondage and how they all relate to me) I wouldn't consider it to be my defining moment.

Instead... it was a wonderfully romantic rendevous that I had at the age of 30... April 21st 2000 to be exact...

I had met a wonderful guy on the internet, and after several months of talking we decided that it would be time for us to finally meet in person. There was no illusion that it was going to be a permanent relationship more than the dear friendship we had already established. He was a life long 50 year old bachelor from Tulsa who was(is) a romantic at heart. We decided to meet in Eureka Springs Arkansas for the weekend. He reserved us a room in a quiet B&B and in a span of 24 hours showed me more about myself sexually and unlocked more things about myself than I could have ever dreamt possible.

Almost 3 years later, he and I are still very close. Altho we have only seen eachother two other times since that occasion, I credit him for opening me up to my own needs... and I will always hold him dear for that.. .

I have had a wonderful journey sexually for the 38 years I have been around. Done a lot of things and fucked a lot of women. However just earlier this year I had what was the most awesome experience yet. I was with a really good friend, you see we are not a couple just really good friends that fuck on occasion. We were fooling aound, licking sucking and slow fucking. She then decided that she was going to fuck me and I remained the passive partner. She proceded to lick and suck me all over and got me really relaxed, She worked my ass and finally slowly slipped a thick dildo up my ass. What an amazing feeling. She then proceded to suck my cock then sit on my cock all the while slow fucking my ass with the dildo. Good lord I can almost feel the orgasms again. I was cumming without ejaculating and guys if this has never happened to you it is the ultimate in a sexual high. So far that was THE BEST. Looking forward to the next time we hook up.

Id have to say for me it was when i lost my virginity. This year!

it finaly happend when i met this girl who happend to work at the local adult shop. we got talken. n then we exchanged emails and talked online. Then the next day we decided to catch up and maybe experament a little bit. I was soooo nervouse!

We fooled around. i ate and fingered her (fantacy come true). used some of her toys on her and she did some oral on me. But being the nervouse one again i didnt cum at all. but i was ok with that.

The next night we did the same thing but this time she asked if i would like to fuck her. and so we did and my god was it better than i had imagined!

We were pritty steady sexual partners for about 2 months and then after that she decided things were getting a little too serious. so we stoped being sexual partners and are now just friends.

Trouble is she still turns me on to nooooo end!

N i really suck when it comes to girls (least i think so)

Kinda get the feeling maybe i just wasent cofident enough in bed or something... Anyway. there ya have it

for me it was many years after i lost my virginity as i found that disappointing and i only countinued to have sex after that because i am a horney bastard and needed to blow my load. sex was only slightl;y better than jerking off.

the defining sexual moments( plural) came with my third girlfriend who opened me up sensually. exhibitionism ( her parents front lawn, at the bus stop shelter, on the beach, on the hotel diving board with an audience, on top of the car in my drive way, on the beach, in the sea, etc) and play rape. she liked to pick a fight, get me all riled up or jealouse then she wiould kiss me passionately amd i would throw her on the ground rip off her clothes( literally, that cost us a bundler) and just fuck her hard to teach her a lesson. we also did erotic massages, etc.

so my defining moment had to be the 2 years we were together.

we did not end well (she cheated) and i never got the chance to thank her for exploring and developing my sexuality. but i am grateful and thankful, so are my girlfriends since.

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Basic ones:

• the first time you do it
• the first time you get a bj/head
• the first time you made a woman cum

Unusual ones:

• the first time you do a threesome with a woman and a guy
• the first time you do a threesome with a woman and a woman
• the first time you do a group encounter
• the first time you do a gangbang with buddy's wife/GF
• the first time you do a gangbang with your wife/GF

Bizarre ones:

• the first time you are member of a porn video crew
• the first time you do it with a porn star (no cam)
• the first (& every) time you are in a polyamorous living arrangement

Heavy ones:

• the first time you do it with the woman you eventually marry
• the first time you do it during an extramarital affair
• the first time you do it after you know the marriage is over
• the first time you do it minus a testicle (hurts like fuck)

best regards,

buck

well, setting aside the first time I "made love" I think I would have to say the first time I was with another woman. It was so heav, and I will NEVER forget how she made me feel.
oh, and then the first time I squirted!! wowo oh, now I'm all horny. gotta go! cheers to ya all.

"DD"

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Ya know, Lil, you got it absolutely right - that's the best way to approach this topic. Being a cetrified old fart. (like me) you develop a tendency to focus on the past. Bad habit -cuz ya miss out on the cool shit that's happening today, right now. One of the attributes that I really love about my GF is that she is the most 'now' focused individual I have ever met. And not in the old hippie, babba rum cosmic muffin spiritual guru way, either. I mean like the spontaneous seeking of immediate gratification with no baggage from the past and little or no worry about what the future may bring. Yeah, it does cause big headaches and problems but that woman lives every moment so intensely and with so much more feeling and emotion than the rest of us. Being around her, you experience a damn 'contact high' just like you are in a room with a bunch of people who ingested some powerful psychedelic drug. She gives this crufty, old pirate a good kick in the ass like we all need sometimes.

Frank Zappa put it something like- "Ya gotta dig it while its happening cuz it just might be a one shot deal".

So, Lilith, I hope ya get laid really, really good today!!

best regards,

buck

I'd say my most defining moment had to be when a friend of mine and me tag teamed this girl. It was my first experience in group sex. We both interchanged positions, me recieving oral and him penetrating her. At the climax of the encouter she asked me and my friend to cum on her chest and face at the same time, I was very leary of my friends spunk touching my tool but I was so caught up in the moment that it didn't matter. We both with a second delay cummed all over her smooth breast and her face and after we both were cleaned out she started to lap away at both of our cocks, slurping the semen that had missed her mouth. It was very erotic, by accident my friend shot some cum on my thigh and she licked it off, she would spit back out the cum from me onto his dick and use it as a lubricante to massge his cock and also with me.

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