View Poll Results: Have you ever had sex with someone of the same sex?
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Yes
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No
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Want to
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Dont want to
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Yes, but not by choice
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07-03-2004, 06:17 AM
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Join Date: May 2004
Location: NY
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To be honest YES. When I was young about 13 with my friend the same age. I think it was more of a pure lust thing than Male on male sex.
Then again with my Ex.Mrs. we had a MMFF , turned out to be a very sexy Bi cpl. she had known.
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07-03-2004, 02:51 PM
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Join Date: Jun 2004
Location: Norway (some times)
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Yes I have.
Once when I was a young teenager with a friend and once together with my wife and a room service boy at a hotel in Spain.
Conclution; I would love to do it more (with the right person)
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08-04-2004, 07:37 AM
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Join Date: Dec 2002
Location: Australia
Posts: 190
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oooo
I once had an older guy get me strip when i was a teenager. He pulled me off saying that it was like fucking a woman - nuthin like it really
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08-04-2004, 08:35 AM
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I said yes, but not by choice. I guess it really sort of was by choice.. my ex-husband brought a woman in to fulfill his FFM fantasy, and we had sex. I had said I would do it, but wasn't prepared, really. And I had agreed to do it once, in order to give him that fantasy, then never again.
I did not enjoy it. I didn't like the taste of her, I didn't like the feel of her "softness," her shape was not appealing to me, and she BIT my clit, very hard, which was not remotely pleasant to me. I have less than no interest at all in ever doing it again. He, on the other hand, loved it, became obsessed with it. To the point he was constantly taking me to bars and asking me to "pick us up a woman."
I have only a couple of times even remotely considered it, with dear friends, and even then, I found if I went on to fantasize about what I was thinking, I lose interest quickly.
I simply find the male body to be FAR FAR more erotic and attractive than women. In fact, I would find a technically "unattractive" man over a very "attractive" woman in a heartbeat. Oddly enough... I fantasize about heavy men, I fantasize about bald men, I fantasize about every shape and size of man. None of it turns me off, only if they do not maintain good hygeine. It makes me sad sometimes to see men without self esteem because of their hair or their weight... all men are beautiful! I honestly have yet to find anything about men except ones that look mean, or ones that don't bathe/ brush their teeth/ etc that is unattractive.
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08-04-2004, 08:59 AM
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Loungin' Around
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Join Date: Nov 2002
Location: West Coast
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Yes, I have...once. And I did enjoy it. But I find few women *really* attractive. I'm like Lou, kinda fussy.
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08-04-2004, 12:25 PM
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Join Date: Jul 2003
Location: Oklahoma
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No, I have never touched another man or been touched. I would really like to, but only if the right situation presented itself. I have never been attracted to any man I have ever met, but the idea of performing oral sex on a really good looking cock intrigues me. I am married though, and will not cheat with man or woman, so will probably never actually try it. I may just remain a nice fantasy.
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08-04-2004, 12:37 PM
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Join Date: Jun 2003
Location: Back in the US finally
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Oh, anyone who knows me at all here knows my answer is gonna be "it's the wrong question."
Have I been with other women. Yup....loved it. Am I straight? Dunno. Don't care. Not entirely sure why it makes a difference to anyone.
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08-04-2004, 09:41 PM
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Turn it up!
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Join Date: May 2001
Location: Music City
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Quote:
Originally Posted by GingerV
Oh, anyone who knows me at all here knows my answer is gonna be "it's the wrong question."
Have I been with other women. Yup....loved it. Am I straight? Dunno. Don't care. Not entirely sure why it makes a difference to anyone.
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GV, if you read WickedWanda's sig, you'd understand what difference it makes...
it's all about whether you get a parade
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08-04-2004, 10:01 PM
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You know what bothers me about the whole thing? As a woman, I get a lot of attitude that amounts to me being "bad" or somehow something is "wrong with me" because I'm not bi. It seems to be fine if men are hetero, but somehow women are freaks if we're not. This attitude has been on an exponential rise recently... it's starting to make me feel like an estranged minority.
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08-04-2004, 10:20 PM
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Sweetlady I think it was you who said something about other people's thoughts/opinions not applying to you unless you apply them to yourself, so I would not get bent out of shape about it.
I'm straight. I have no urge to FFM or FF and I certainly would not do it to please someone else. I think women are beautiful and I understand completely how easy and wonderful it would be to have a female lover but when it comes down to it, I've got a dick fetish and I happen to be crazy about the men that usually come attached to them.That being said...
I know men who are completely hetero on a daily basis who if the situation came in to play they would not be squeamy and would just do whatever felt good in the here and now. I can not say that I would behave any differently, I just know it's not something I would actively seek out.
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08-05-2004, 01:15 PM
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When Wanda finds her parade, I'm more than happy to march in it, Scotz ....it'll be one hell of a party.
Sweetlady, I didn't see anyone doing anything but confessing their own experiences/preferences. But I can see that if you're already feeling a little singled out, some of the posts might have felt like jabs to an already sore spot. For what it's worth, I liked what you said in your original post. I think people come in amazing and wonderful variation, in all dimentions. Sexual preference is just one of them...but like all others, no-one should ever feel their answer is the "wrong" one. There is nothing wrong with your not be turned on by women. Zip. Zilch. It's totally you. I think it was generous of you to give a MFF a try for your then partner, and I think it's fabulous that you were honest with yourself afterwards and decided it wasn't for you.
But I think you raise an interesting question....maybe it is more acceptable in today's society for women to be bi (or whatever..I still don't like the labels ). Maybe some people even expect women to be bi. I think it's possible to build the argument that "het. male" oriented pornography (ok, that's three different fights I might have just picked) contributed to the idea that bi or FF action was desirable, in the same way it contributed to shaved pubes being defined as sexy. I actually don't know a lot of bi guys to ask...sounds like there are a bunch here who could weigh in on the subject of whether they feel as accepted as the women.
However it came about, though, I just don't think it's as big a problem here as elsewhere. Is it possible that you're still reacting in part to your ex's pressure to keep trying MFFs after you'd told him you weren't interested? Cause that sounds like it was just downright inconsiderate.
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08-05-2004, 01:37 PM
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No no, I am sorry, I didnt' mean anyone at pixies was treating me that way. I apologize that it sounded that way. It's a workplace/ friends thing.
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08-08-2004, 03:17 PM
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personaly
i find that if a bloke ask's a woman if shes bi and she says yes they think thats cool (for a hetro bloke theres only one thing better than 1 woman and thats 2) if she says no its like why not.
if a bloke was to admit to being bi, they will just say he's completly gay and trying to deniy it in some way.
i hate labels why why why as long as your happy and not forcing anyone its no one else's business.
if group situation turned up who could honistly say 100%
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08-09-2004, 03:46 AM
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Same here
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oh yeah. 12 and 13 years old found a lot of us boys jerking each other off. I remember it as fun. It was then forgoten once we got girls to do it.
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