Hello all, I have a question. My g/f and I have been together for about 2 years, and our sex life is great. I want to take her picture, but she won't let me. what is the best way to get her to change her mind.

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If she is afraid that she'll end up plastered over the web,

I'm not surprised.

Be gradual, shitloads of lingerie, and see where it leads.

It is, after all, her image she's protecting.

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Calm, quiet, smooth, devastating

If you have fully explained why you want to take her picture, and I'm assuming that you want to take pictures of a sexual nature, and your girlfriend doesn't wish you to do so then I respectively suggest you bow to her wishes and leave it at that.

I keep telling her she is very good looking, but she doesn't think so. I don't pressure her all the time, just every once and awhile I suggest it.

The reason why I want to take her picture is because she has a couple of outfits that she look absolutly stunning in and I want to show her how good she looks in it.

oh well, maybe she isn't ready yet

Brian_Watt---Perhaps the reason for her hesitancy is the same as
the way my wife feels.She might figure that ONLY you should view
her charms.If so;be happy and proud that she feels that way.
Irish
P.S.Many people don't want anyone except their S/O to see them.
They're feelings should be respected.Remember:Different strokes;
for different folks!

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Irish---Better to be dead & cool,then alive & uncool!
(Harley Davidson & the Marlboro Man)

maybe she needs to hear a good remark every once in a while about her pictures in normal situations. or try taking a couple of you alone then u and her

u know try to be gradual and dont remind her about it maybe she will forget then change her mind if she is stubborn

If she is not happy - don't mention it again, wot may feel like mentioning it once or twice to you, may to her feel as if she is unable to give you something you want and may make her unhappy.

Why not invite her to share this site with you, enjoy chatting to all these great people together. If she decides to change her mind at all - let it be her who changes it, not you.

Remember, you said your sex life is great, dont spoil it by unnecessary pressure - good luck and happy times xx

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Carefully talk to her, but always respect her opinion. If you cannot change her mind, leave it.
Welcome.

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If every material thing is gone, my smile and my tears stay left.

how about she takes some off you
to break the ice

Welcome to Pixies Brian! Listen to the folks above, they speak the truth!

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Hi welcome to pixies....

ICT wasnt sure when i introduced her here. i left her to look around and see what others had posted. But it was her choice to post or not.

i dont think you should try to force your g/f to pose if she is not sure.

i agree with axe let her take some pics of you if she's happy with that she may then pose for you. A poloroid would mean no-one would see and you could always distroy them if she didnt like them.

shall i get down from the soap box now!!!

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A fair face may fade, but a beautiful soul lasts forever

I never had any intention of forcing her to take the pics, I respect her in every way. and if it means no pictures, i shall take no pictures.

Brian not once when i read your post did i think you were forcing her. If your asking her and she isnt getting mad at you then its not wrong for you to ask her about it. You seem to know your GF well enough to know if she is upset about it, and you seem to understand how she feels. Just talk to her about it and maybe have her talk to some of the ladies here we may be able to help. If she wants to hop on we will all say hello
till then take care and as the others said take some pics with poloroid's you never know she may like them more than she thinks. Start SLOW tho as like bra and undies pics let her see that she doesnt look half bad. No matter what you say to her its how she feels and its hard to change a girls mind

Good luck to you
Hugs
Sar

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hey, thanks for all the support. I will keep you all posted on what happens

thanks