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Old 03-02-2005, 04:08 PM
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curious anal novice

I will not bore anyone with personal details: just to say that I have been apart from SO for some time, expecting reunion soon, but it is still yet to be. It will not be surprising that during this time my sole sexual outlet is masturbation. I have off and on been curious about anal play but never experimented with Toys. What I would be interested in is something that could be worn, say, while sitting here, writing, walking around, etc, without causing internal damage, yet give that extra sensation. In my ignorance I went ahead and ordered some beginner-type anal beads but I have a feeling that is not the way to go - fun as they sound to be - or I should have ordered a better type. Any advice on this is much appreciated.
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Old 03-02-2005, 04:27 PM
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a plug may be a better choice for what you describe but for the initial playing I think beads are a great choice
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I would suggest a butt plug. There are several different sizes and they can definitely be inserted and 'worn' for awhile. I wouldn't suggest hours, but lube one up and walk, sit, play for 10-15 minutes to start with and see how it goes. If it's working out, maybe try 30-45 minutes. Good luck... and please keep us posted on how it's going.
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Old 03-02-2005, 04:57 PM
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So then get started with the beads (should be here tomorrow or the next day) and then get a plug on the way... I've sort of lived in a cave regarding such things as Toys - never thought they would appeal but I find the interest "growing" but there's so much out there!
Thanks... you really want to know the outcum?
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Old 03-02-2005, 05:09 PM
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Sure, in fact photographic evidence would be even better
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Old 03-02-2005, 05:15 PM
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Well - that could get interesting too, couldn't it?
But you know I'm really shy about that kind of thing.
Yet Lilith is in charge here.
What about picturesque words?
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My advice..

Would have to include close personal supervision and assistence.. One must be sure they are doing it properly to maximize the sensation.. You should also find someone that can watch and offer pointers.. my suggestion would be myself =)


hehe but on a side note.. aqua makes a good point first use the anal beads to see how it feels.. now.. depending ont he size of the plug you might want to use your efingers for a bit to help stretch and relax the muscle before you try to work it in..
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personally, i prefer picturesque prose to provocative photos of our pixie profligates

it's prolly obvious but no-one's said it yet so....

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Old 03-02-2005, 09:26 PM
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Pixie's is perhaps a perfect place to post play by play or post-play progress. What about pre-play?
I kind of want to masturbate to ejaculation now - right now, tonight. But I also like the idea of waiting, the delivery should be tomorrow - the beads - but it could be yet another day. Been cyber-browsing for the plug. It seems necessary.
This is very exciting. You all are so understanding and helpful. I was a bit embarrassed at first to even post this piece.
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Old 03-02-2005, 09:52 PM
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...I kind of want to masturbate to ejaculation now - right now, tonight. But I also like the idea of waiting, the delivery should be tomorrow - the beads - but it could be yet another day...





i'm serious about the writing though. i've written about personal/actual experiences and it can be just as thrilling as posting pictures...more so for me, actually.

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one more thing i just recently did what you are about to do and trust me...you'll have fun. endless, mindless fun :devilish:
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Old 03-02-2005, 10:06 PM
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what exactly did you do if you don't mind my prying for specifics?
You mean about the beads? or something else?
I think I'll try to wait until the package arrives. Maybe just bring things close to the cum but keep holding off.
Would a posting of one's first anal bead experience go here or in the story section? And then the plug as a sequel?
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Old 03-03-2005, 08:42 PM
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i did what you wanna do---i slipped it in and left it there for a while. then i spent several amazing hours in a sexual haze

except i had a **blush** strap-on, too (you prolly don't need one of those ) and i used a dildo not a plug, although the dildo was fairly small and slim. felt perfect, but i'm used to anal and love it. both were presents from my husband (thank you! thank you! thank you! love you honey! ) on valentine's and while the cat's away... :devilish:

so trust me...as long as it feels comfy inside you (which you won't know til you try) you're gonna have fun.

and if i were you, i'd put the pictures in the pic sections...only members can see those and it also makes it easier for the rest of us to find them :lust:
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Old 03-04-2005, 11:18 AM
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omygosh...made a mistake cause i did not read your post closely enough...my apologies...if it's a story you'll write, you can post it anywhere i s'pose, but there's a masturbation category in the erotic storyy forum.
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Hypothetically Speaking * Something More * Cammy Interrupted * An Experimental Vacation * Masked * so..damn..hot * Thank You * My toy, his idea * no.19 Maple Lane * I Have A Surprise For You * Yesterday * In a Quiet Kitchen * help me decide * untitled prose * more untitled prose
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Old 03-04-2005, 06:14 PM
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Oh Yum! I came in here spectin the same ole same ole anal thread...and WHAM!

Just gotta say hun...since it's gonna be you introducing the probe, beads, plug (your choice)...you are in control! Go with the flow and you'll enjoy it...I promise!

Really, really loved reading the responses to this thread! Ty for the query meanwhile!

And meanwhile...back at the ranch...

^^^LOL! I couldn't resist!
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And meanwhile, the shipment arrived...
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