Well I have found her and spoken to her on the phone.

She is in a very difficult situation indeed. She went to help her mother who lives in CA after she developed a brain tumour and had it surgically removed. Her mother then needed chemotherapy.

Her father was very badly effected over his wife's condition and had a stroke that has left him paralysed down one side. She has moved both her parents to her little house where she is caring for them as well as her 2 children and working a part time job. She has had to drop out of her Uni course and is living to care for her family.

Life can be so cruel at times, all the things she planned to do with her life have been put on hold for the forseeable future.

Naturally it puts our marriage in doubt but I am going to see if we can work through it with her. She needs someone to give her some support and the person in my skin is the one who will try the best to do it. Just sent her some flowers. I can be patient she is the woman I love and now I know what the problem is I will do my best to help her through it.

Grumble,

Good luck sir.

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Eudaimonia

I'm very glad you were able to make contact with her and receive some answers. I'm sorry about her parents. My best to the both of you. She's damn lucky to have you!

((((Grumble))))

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Dear Lord, I pray for wisdom to understand my man, love to forgive him, and patience for his moods. Because Lord, if I pray for strength, I'll beat him to death. AMEN


It's no trick loving somebody at their best. Love is loving them at their worst.
~Tom Stoppard~


It isn't premarital sex if you have no intention of getting married.
~George Burns~


As bad as I am, I'm proud of the fact that I'm worse than I seem.
~A. DiFranco~

Just logged on and signed in and this is the first thread I've seen. (((((Ian)))))...so sorry to know of the troubles Curvy is having and I send my best to her and her family. I can't foresee the future, but at least the present has brought you both together, if only by phone. I hope for clearer and brighter days in the very near future!

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Minds are like parachutes. They only work when they are open.

~Thomas Dewar~

I'm pleased you have been able to get some answers and wish you and Curvy all the best.

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I want to know everything
I want to be everywhere
I want to fuck everyone in the world
I want to do something that matters

thoughts are with both of you.

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If someone offers a penny for your thoughts and you put your two cents in, what happens to the other penny??

Don’t let the hardship of the past, take away from the joy of the present

I am glad you got to talk to her. Maybe that will put your mind at ease some. I am sure it must be so difficult being that far away from someone you love, espeically when they are going thru a difficult time. I am sure you wish you could be right there with her, holding her and telling her everything will be ok. And I am sure she knows that. Keep your chin up. Things will work out like they are supose to. Hugs.

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~Tainted Love~

My thoughts and prayers are with Curvy and her parents.

I know how helpless you feel being so far away, but I'm sure that knowing you're thinking of her helps.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

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"Beware how you take away hope from another human being."
-Oliver Wendell Holmes

(((Ian))) ~ glad you and she are starting to sort things out. Please let her know that I send her the best, and wish her strength....she's going thru a tough spot.

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

Keep a smile on ur face. One thing I've learned despite how few years I've been on this earth, is that when things can't seem to get any worse (even if they do);things ultimately get better and you are a stronger person for persevering through it all.

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Xs and Os,
Kristin

Grumble...I am so glad to hear that you were able to get hold of Curvy. I am so sorry to hear of her situation and her parents' health difficulties. I am praying and pulling for all of you. Many hugs to you and Curvy.

Grumble

Tough it out and see where it goes. Glad to hear you've touched bases.

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Calm, quiet, smooth, devastating

Prayers, good thoughts and hugs to you both.