Fallen Angel

If you feel that someone has criticised you excessively or

hurtfully, PM Diva.

Everyone that matters here knows that the lady who lives

behind the eyes is the most important part of a woman.

Your body is the vehicle for that lady and is to be respected for

this. If this person has a problem with this, it's his problem, not

yours. Sounds like someone who was asked to leave recently,

one Dave the Great. More I think of it, more I think it's a Diva

thing.

BTW, BBW give the BEST cuddles.

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Calm, quiet, smooth, devastating

my g/f and I are both a bit overweight but she was talking to a guy who said " I love dating fat chicks, they're so attention craving that they'll do anything in bed..." my g/f ended up holding me back and pulling me out of the room which she often does around ignorant people since I'm a very passionate person and I defend those I love (and myself).

Always
Kyttn

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-Seems we got here just in the nick of time. Whats that make us?
--Big damn heros Sir.
-Ain't we just.

That HT/WT sounds rather sexy to me! And Curvy! Yummm!
I know it's hard to ignore, but this guy's just a jerk, plain and simple. There's definitely a lot of guys here that appreciate a sexy, curvacious figure... I wouldn't call your pics anything except something I'd like to see!! You've got a lot of support here, that's for sure!

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Put me on wheels and I'll turn tricks.

Clever? Nah, I ran out of that years ago. But if you find this, let me know, k?
"The road goes ever on..." ~ Tolkien

In memory of my friend skip...
Go then, there are other worlds than these

Sharni---Your thread reminds me of a ;I think that it was W.C.Fields;skit that I once saw.His opponent said"You're drunk."
He replied"You're ugly!Tomorrow;I'll be sober but you'll still be ugly!" Irish

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Irish---Better to be dead & cool,then alive & uncool!
(Harley Davidson & the Marlboro Man)

Good one, Irish!!
Bama just goes to show ya how few braincells some jerks have...
and how self-centered some people can be.......personally,,,,,
i love it when the kids are in school and my wife goes around closing the blinds...........i know i'm in for some interesting ''housecleaning''..........usually doesn't get anything but the dusting done........lol

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Do not pray for an easy life, pray for the strength to endure a difficult one..Bruce Lee
A man smart enough to understand women is also smart enough to keep quiet about it !! (approved by Lilith)

i love bbw...they are more caring sharing and friendly and i find that it doesn't matter what is on the outside it is about heart mind and personality... weither you are big or small tall or short if you have a strong mind big heart and loads of personality.... you get my attention over any poser any day

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work like you don't need the money.... love like you've never been hurt ....
dance like there is nobody watching ...
and fuck ... like your doing it on film

Am I the only one here who's seen "Queens Of Comedy"?

Monique says it best...I laughed so hard I cried... I won't give it away (mostly because I am afraid of mis-quoting) but if you get a chance to see it, DO!!!

I personally feel that people spend too much time worrying about what they look like and not enough time on how they come off. I've been with women of all shapes and sizes. I, myself, have been all shapes and sizes...

But I have to say this. I am sexy, because I believe I am. What I feel about myself illuminates every room I walk into. There is no doubt, when I am on stage, that I AM a star...that people can't help but look. Say what you will (perhaps you find me arrogant)...but what YOU believe about yourself, others will too!

Ophelia

PS. Ladies, send me your addresses and we'll start the campaign here at Pixies...the "Fuck your facist beauty standar" campaign! What do you think???

PSS. That's me on the left, in the silver pants!

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Initial appearance is what attracts someone;but many people that
I have known;have been extremely dissappointed;when they found that the person that looked good had a horrible personality! Irish

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Irish---Better to be dead & cool,then alive & uncool!
(Harley Davidson & the Marlboro Man)

Well this isn't exactly a quote, but I came across this illustration today and thought immediately of this thread... The original source is Z Magazine, perhaps the best left-wing alternative media hub in existence. Lots of fascinating and compelling ideas expressed there... And a darned fine editorial cartoon section! There's also a whole file of quotes there, some of which may apply here --- though most of the sex/gender quotes are more generally about feminism and not specifically about body size or image. The site's at http://www.zmag.org/ZNET.htm if anyone's interested...

Just for the sake of it, here's a couple of sample quotes from the archive... They aren't really retorts, which I think is what you were originally looking for, Fallen_Angel, but hopefully you'll find them encouraging...

Lois Wyse: "Men are taught to apologize for their weaknesses, women for their strengths."

Susan B. Anthony: "The true republic: men, their rights and nothing more; women, their rights and nothing less."

--- sweetstuff

p.s. Ophelia --- I'm all for joining that particular campaign of yours! What can I do? When do we start? Sign me up!!!

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"You can't test courage cautiously." --- Annie Dillard

Loved the cartoon SFC (btw I am a diabetic too)

and whilst the pic was fuzzy Ophelia, you look a bloody good sort to me (Translation from Australian = you look like a sexy woman to me)

I am not physically attracted to obesity but skinny woman like calista flockheart are not my cup of tea either. you are what you are and its the person you are that what matters

Thanks grumble...

SFC...there is a good website to start with...I sponsor them through donations from my album sales...in return, they list me as one of their sponsors on their print media...

www.about-face.org

Any woman who believes that society (particularly North American society) is setting un-obtainable standards for women...check this site! For you blokes who want to know why ads look like they do...or if you want some good sarcastic laughs!

Ophelia

*hands soap box back to Irish* "thanks pal"

cool site ophelia......kicks the supermodel image in the ass!!!!!!thank god for bbw!!!!!

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Do not pray for an easy life, pray for the strength to endure a difficult one..Bruce Lee
A man smart enough to understand women is also smart enough to keep quiet about it !! (approved by Lilith)

Ophelia---Altho the proper request form was not filled out;being
as you are a pixies member; in good standing;I will let it slide this
time!Feel free to use it anytime that I am not.
Seriously---I have been a diabetic for some years.I had read that
many people had it.Also;that alot of people had it and didn't know
that they did.I was truly amazed by the # of people; that are pixies members;that have said in different threads that they are
also diabetics.I have constantly been suprised by the # of people;
in different walks of life;that are afflicted with it.Somehow;after having something for so long;you just don't think of;how many;
other people have it. Irish
P.S.All this time I thought that the only thing unique to me was
masturbation.They always said in'AA'that you're not unique in most things.(A few years ago;I was mandated by the State;that in order to get my operators license back;that I had to attend so
many AA meeting a week and get alcohol counceling!)

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Irish---Better to be dead & cool,then alive & uncool!
(Harley Davidson & the Marlboro Man)

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"Beware how you take away hope from another human being."
-Oliver Wendell Holmes

You definitely know how to please a man...

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