After much soul searching, not so great luck with getting a job for me, and finding out England's Fiance' visa processing times are approx ONE to TWO WEEKS (!!!), Mayhem and I have decided that we are tired of the torture of being apart and we just want to be with each other.

The idea is to live in Jolly Ol' for 2-5 years and save up moolah to come back to the States.

The missing each other is about driving us batty, and we are sappy romantic mushballs. Plus we are both really really horny!---but sex isn't the major deciding factor, but a nice fat cherry on top of the Mayhem sundae---mmmmm

I will hopefully be leaving for the UK shortly after the American holiday of Thanksgiving. I wanted to be there for Mayhem's 28th birthday on Nov 11, but it gives me time to get my lizards in a row.

I am supremely nervous about moving there, however there are also other reasons that calm my logical mind, and my sweet sweet Mayhem, who with just a few words, can make my heart flutter, or calm my nerves.

Like the song says "I finally found the love of a lifetime..."

....and so I go.

lizzardbits,

Well good for you! That's taking control of your life!

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Eudaimonia

Wow, you learn something new every day!

Congrats, guys!!!!! A nice early birthday present for Mayhem!

Good luck, have fun and congrats!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Si à travers nos veines coule encore le sang...
Si dans les jeux d'enfants on entend encore l'accent...
Si nous sentons encore l'espoir de nos grands-parents...
Si dans les voiles du large souffle encore le vent...
Y'a jamais eu de Grand Dérangement.

Congrats!

How about your kiddos? Are they excited about it?

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The practice of putting women on pedestals began to die out when it was discovered that they could give orders better from there.~ Betty Grable

If I wanted your opinion, I'd remove the duct tape and ask you for it.~ Me
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One man's dream is another man's nightmare~~~~> §¤ Lilith ¤§
~>My Scribbles<~
==>Gone Shopping<== ~Just a Quickie~ *~A Celebration Vacation~* ~Surprises~ Sleeping With the Window Open
What Did You Do Today? Self Defense Class ~Short Sweet Snippets~ § Summer Spin § Story Challenge Submission Pajamas

Way to go Lizz...chase that dream!

WOW and Double WOW!!!!!!!!!! I'm speechless. Congrats!!!!!

NO! Now I have to 'watch' ANOTHER flight schedule/report

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Congrats!

Wishing you all the best!!

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Not sure if they quite grasp it yet, for that matter, I am still having a bit of a time wrapping my mind around it.

I like that they'll end up with an English accent....it sounds so sophistocated compared to my American twangy accent.

Also, my dreams of going into education may not be put on the back burner---Mayhem needs to do some more checking, but I may be able to be a classroom assistant, and get some classroom time---hopefully.

Lizzardbits, it looks like thing may be looking up for the two of you. Hope all goes smoothly and you have a happy time in jolly ol' England.

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good luck! and don't be nervous. embrace the change cause, holy crap, what an adventure! besides, you're wiley and hardworking. whatever happens, i'm willing to bet a lot that you and yours will e just fine.

congrats you two!!

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Trees give peace to the souls of men * Nora Waln

The forest would be very quiet if no other birds sang than those who sing the best * Henry van Dyke

some fairly sordid tales, rambles, and anecdotes
Hypothetically Speaking * Something More * Cammy Interrupted * An Experimental Vacation * Masked * so..damn..hot * Thank You * My toy, his idea * no.19 Maple Lane * I Have A Surprise For You * Yesterday * In a Quiet Kitchen * help me decide * untitled prose * more untitled prose

Beware strange lizards offering unsolicited advice.

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On the kinkometer, my kink measures as a sine wave.

I wish you luck and love. Enjoy the adventure of getting to live abroad -- few peopl eget to experience this blessing.

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

I'm very happy for the two of you. It's got to be exciting and scary all at once, and when the dust settles...you'll be so relieved to be "living your dream."


(((((Lizz & Mayhem)))))

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.