Okay...regarding the giving or getting of blowjobs. What style do you prefer. The woman takes the lead and the man just lays back and receives or the man being a little aggresive and fucking (gently) her mouth.

Bit of both really... I like to take the lead at first, but when I've got him really hot and bothered then I like it when he starts to play back (though if I feel like teasing I won't let him do anything but sit really, really still...)

I guess I sort of prefer her to take the lead but to be honest I've only really had one in my life that even got me close to an orgasm.

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Fussy is like that too Iowaman - I can find it a little disheartening as it makes me think my technique is no good. Unfortunately, it's rather difficult to ask any previous partners how many marks out of ten I'd get.

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i think its a little bit of both..If we are in 69 honestly i can't concentrate on him at all. argh.. i swallow so would rather get him off and then he laast longer. method to my madness

I enjoy both with her taking the lead. Then I want her to climb aboard so I can outlast her over the edge.....

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I prefer to start of slow and then as the temp rises I also continuesly speed up.
I like my man just to lie back and enjoy with him slowly swaying his hips

To give, I like to decide how it goes. I like it to be my idea, unless we're playing a game.

Sometimes I like to just look at him and slowly lick, running my tongue around, but other times, I like to be more aggressive. I don't like to be 'face fucked'.

Hanging with my head off the end of the bed is good too.

When I'm on the receiving end, I like to kick back and relax, with nothing on my mind but completely enjoying what's happening. Moving and grooving with the experience, physically and emotionally.

Listening is the greater in importance on how and what to do. When I'm giving my BF a bj I like for him to allow me to work past my natural gag reflex. When I've done that, he gets the high sign and from then on he's pretty much free to do what he wants in my mouth. I ask him in advance to go from that point and sometimes clasp hands behind my head and press his cock into my mouth as hard and deep as he can. At the same time, I'm squeezing my arms around his ass and pulling myself onto his dick as hard as I can letting him shove the meat and finally the blast of cum down my throat. My girlfriend can't deepthroat me so I let her do anything she wants. I NEVER press without her asking or telling me to. Dear friends, the throat can be injured.

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I like it down and dirty, hard and furious, teasing, porno style. It drives me wild and I so get into it especially when I get that look as she takes me totally in. OMG!!!

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I agree there is something kind of sexy about feeling the tingle of a slightly bruised mouth after a session of oral....I think I'm going to have to make that happen fairly soon - Fussy, you've been warned!

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