I wasn't sure how to title this. So, I know all about kegals. I'm very good with my kegal muscles and they are very good to me.

Here's my question....

When you've been stretched out a bit during sex, how long does it take for the vaginal muscles to go back to normal?

Example. Playing with toys which are larger than your mate, or fisting.

I'm just curious here. A few hours? 12? 24? Any ideas are appreciated. I think it happens fairly quickly, maybe a few hours tops.

Thanks,
Jenny

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From my experience on the other end of things it's just a matter of minutes.

Of course it may also depend on the vaginal orifice in question.

Okay, here's what I'll offer -- I'll run the lab, purely objective testing for any lady who'd like expert opinion and timing with an atomic stop watch, Greenwich Mean Time.

Anyone want a banana?

JW

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mmmmmmmmm stretching is good

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mmm oh God yes I love to be stetched.

uuuhh wha?

(Nurse Wanda stops thinking of the last time SHE got stretched out and tries to answer)

Open ended (OMG did I really say that?) question hon.
More you get stretched, the longer it takes.
Passing a small car vaginally (known as giving birth) leaves most women stretched somewhat permanently. Kegel help A LOT, so don't quit.
From normal (what is normal?) intercourse, you should feel "right and tight" in about 12 to 24 hours.
Side effect note- When I was living as a lesbian for a few years, I got very tight, and the first guy I was with couldn't get enough, and neither could I!!!!

sexually

Nurse Wanda

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*Hands over ears* la la laaaah...la la laaaa

OK WW, may I ask you a question, while we're on the subject of childbirth?

I know you're supposed to do Kegels before the birth to help with continence issues etc, however, won't that also make me tighter making it harder for me to push 'mini-me' out? I really hate the idea of tearing or having an episiotomy and I can't help but feel that I should be preparing by stretching, not by tightening my vaginal passage....also, is there any truth in the claims that massaging wheatgerm oil/other kinds of oil into the perineum may prevent the need for stitches?

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Lou,
I was told the Kegels were helpful before but really more important afterwards to help the uterine walls (ha ha mine are gone!) and bladder resume their rightful positions. I read a great hippy birthing book before baby #2 and it described that as the contractions come you think of yourself as opening not 'contracting' and so after the contractions begins to ease you focus on breathing anf picture yourself opening up as you relax. The book said that keeping the perineum rubbed with oil during the process can help if opposing pressure is placed on it during the birth. That being said I can tell you from experience that cutting heals faster than tearing.

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