So i decided to start this thread about what people need to know about sex for those that do not have alot of experience. Come on people lets collect the best techniques and positions etc.

Hmm....now let me see. I can certainly provide a list of the things I find myself saying most regularly on other threads here at Pixies:

What a guy needs to know:
1. Size really doesn't matter. It doesn't. Really.
2. Women who really love sex are not necessarily promiscuous.
3. Women who don't want to have sex with you are not 'inhibited' or 'repressed'...they may just have standards that you don't reach.
4. It takes more than showing a woman your cock to turn her on.


What a woman needs to know:
1. Men love breasts...no matter how horrible you happen to think yours are, to men, they are wonderful, so stop worrying about them.
2. The right man will be attracted to a smart, sassy woman who stands up for herself and doesn't allow him to walk all over her. If he doesn't like it when you are your own woman, kick him to the curb.
3. The fashion industry is predominantly run by gay men......don't let THEM dictate to you who/what is sexy. What do they know about hips and waists and breasts?
4. Be open to new experiences and communicate your needs to your partner.

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here's what i know: sex is personal. likes/needs/wants/turn-ons change from person to person and sometimes even from day to day with each person. the best way to find out more about sex it to talk about it openly and honestly with your partner.

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Sex is what you do.

Love/lust is how you feel about it.

Pixies is where you come to enjoy it.

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Is that why I never get my pizza delivered my a sexy woman who want sex?

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it's not the orgasm but getting there thats fun

a shot in the bush is worth two in the hand

whip me, beat me, tie me up, break my arm, but please don't break my heart

"The trouble with the world is that the stupid people are cocksure and the intelligent are full of doubt" -Bertrand Russell

No, just wrong Pizza company.

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aw crap!

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I think some of us missed the message in this post.......



I think he wants to ask advice for people who are having sex for the first time or are only new to the whole sex game. So to answer his statement on best technique and positions etc......

Well 69er is always a good starter followed by doggy. If that doesn't rock your boat then there is always girl on top and of course the age old favourite missionary which I think now adays is overlooked as most people just want to "get down and dirty" and just want to go at it fast and hard. Each to their own.

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Did we?

No BiBi - I don't think we did......I think we offered advice that was far more pertinent and useful than trying to compile some kind of amateurs' sex manual.

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Who in the fuck does doggy style the first time they have sex? Or gets "down and dirty"? Most women want their first experience to be a special and loving experience, and while I'm a big fan of doggy style it's not exactly the most intimate or loving position there is.

Jude I was only saying that for those who just want to get on with it. I did state that if it's not for them to try missionary. We have all been in that situation where we just want to get on with it. Male and female. When you are horny you just want to get on with it.

In the ideal situation of course a girl wants to make sure it's a memorable time, but there are many types of "memorable" from person to person. We are all individuals and so what may be good for one person may or may not be good for other's.

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If I may make a suggestion (as a longtime lurker and new member): I've found the key (for me as a male) is to pay attention to my lover and relax. The more attention I pay to my lover (in this case, my wife), the better my performance. Likewise, the less uptight I am about looking/feeling like a porn star, the better.

So here's what you need to know about sex (in real life): It's not about you. Sure, you can have a heck of a good time and the experience could feel fantastic, but sex done right (IMHO) is not about secret positions that work for any woman or "techniques" that never fail. There are no such positions and no such techniques. Every woman is wonderfully different.

Take it easy and get to know your woman. Find those little spots that drive her crazy? Discover how (and if) she likes to be spoken to during sex. Learn her natural inclinations and fantasies. It takes a little time to get to know each new partner, but it's well worth it. Why? Because what ultimately makes you a stud in bed is your ability to please your lover! And pleasing your (female) lover is about patience, listening, and sensitivity to her desires more than it is about having a secret knowledge of "all the best techniques and positions." All the techniques in the world won't make you a good lover if you don't know how your woman likes them to be used...

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Excellent advice!

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