In a healthy long term relationship what are some things that you shouldn't fantasize and masturbate to?

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A risk assessment must be carried out at the very least before hand.

I believe that masturbation and fantasies are a matter for you, your head and your hand. I would not want to label any fantasy as 'wrong' since they rarely reflect on any real life feelings towards your partner.

Attaching guilt to fantasies is probably very unhealthy, however being aware that certain fantasies should always remain in that realm is healthy, sensible and moral.

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Don't worry about what you fantacize about. There enough other things to obsess about. Fantasies are your mind's way of playing. They're fantasies, not actualities. Enjoy.

yep, yep, yep. What they ^^^ said.

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I agree with my fellow posters on this one.

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Child porn. Animals.

Everything else is good

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What she said plus anything with killing or maiming in it.

I agree!!! BUT......

those are our limits. Can we impose them on someone else?

Everybody has thier own kink..... personally I'm not into silky panties but hear some people are.

I think anything goes.

Just keep fantasy seperate from reality!

They don't always mix well.

souls_cry2000,

Fantasize about anything you wish.

Don't confuse fantasy with reality.

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Jseal, I never confuse the one with the other. I however find certain images disconcerting at times. Especially considering my deep love and affection for Sexychrissy

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long I stood there, wondering, fearing,
Doubting, dreaming dreams
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souls_cry2000,

Fair enough; don't fantasize about those images.

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Your fantasy is yours and yours alone. It should be everything you want it to be. You create it to please yourself and only you.