What is the most important thing to a woman in a relationship?

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Good to be King
Everybody should have a friend like me!!!

Actually over the years it has changed for me.

I want VERY different things now than I did oh...say...10 years or so ago.



What's important to a man in a relationship?

What did it start at and what is it now

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Good to be King
Everybody should have a friend like me!!!

Many important things - compatibility in bed, the kitchen . . . every room, trust, love, and understandin' . . .

Everything...........!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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~ Nikki ~

"In love there are no rules".......Bono

Good question....being faithful is number one,trusting each other
being able to laugh,to cry,to freak out at times lol.Being able to let
your s.o. see you at your worst and just taking care of each other.
OH YES ...SEX ..SEX...SEX...AND HOLDING HANDS

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CAPTIVATE MY ATTENTION, POSSESS MY BODY, INVADE MY MIND, ROCK MY WORLD AND, CALL ME "YOUR" BITCH... YOU KNOW MY HUNGER, YOU OWN MY DESIRE, YOU HAVE MY WILL, TAKE ME BABY... DIVINE PLEASURE

she's gotta own a monkey and have an ass like the devil.

Trust definitely. I think loving someone is easy, but once the trust is built, you can climb mountains together!

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It isn't what you call me, it's what I answer to that counts.

trust, communication, and ability to show emotion... okay.. that is three things.. but they are equally important to me..

How about consideration for the others feelings....thats # 1 on my list today.

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CAPTIVATE MY ATTENTION, POSSESS MY BODY, INVADE MY MIND, ROCK MY WORLD AND, CALL ME "YOUR" BITCH... YOU KNOW MY HUNGER, YOU OWN MY DESIRE, YOU HAVE MY WILL, TAKE ME BABY... DIVINE PLEASURE

for me, it is truth; can be gently stated but clear and harsh if required. Without truth, a relationship is barely meaningful for me. Relationship implies interchange. I understand that some truths are more difficult to reveal than others. But BS is just the thing to end it for me.

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"You don't know how you met me, you don't know why, you can't turn around and say goodbye, all you know is when I'm with you, I make you free, and swim through your veins like a fish in the sea" (Uncle Kracker)

Did I mention housework?

COMMUNICATION. and a willingness to work at the relationship -- staying together is HARD WORK.

OK...enough being serious now...back to pervin'

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

I'll have to agree with Osuche, communication is the key to working a relationship. Understanding,consideration and trust are the results of successful communication. Sex is one means of communicating the love between you but surely not the only one. Tender stolen moments among life's hurried appointments mean as much as nights of passion when needed. It's never letting your SO forget they're your heart.
All this seriousness on just my second cup of coffee.... what was I thinking? LOL

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As to marriage or celibacy, let a man take which course he will. He will be sure to repent - Socrates

Love is not looking in each other's eyes, but looking together in the same direction - Antoine De Saint-Exupery

He has to adore me! I don't mean blind adoration. He needs to know I am human with faults and flaws but still adore me. I think acceptance of each other's short-comings without trying to change the other person is critical to a successful relationship.





And well, like Steph, he needs to like to play house boy

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The practice of putting women on pedestals began to die out when it was discovered that they could give orders better from there.~ Betty Grable

If I wanted your opinion, I'd remove the duct tape and ask you for it.~ Me
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