Hi Dude,
I do feel as though I've 'cleaned house' as far as he's concerned. I just wish I didn't have such conflicting emotions about his wife. I think I did handle it in the way that was best for me. I had an empty pit feeling when he wasn't returning/answering my calls. Now I don't have the urge to speak to him as much. I feel that my letter helped that.

I am still annoyed that he can't respect me enough to be a man and face me. Then again if you look back on it when was I ever treated with respect by him??? I guess my questions will continue to go unanswered and one day maybe the answers won't even matter.

Take care yourself, and thanks