My experiences with my female lovers has essentially been the same as with my male lovers; the experiences have always been more fulfilling, more enjoyable, the more I cared about the person. I've had sex with both men and women more or less for the sake of sex, but I just haven't enjoyed it as much as when I've first been attracted to the person, gotten to know them (thus have some type of emotional bond with them), and then had sex with them as just a natural progression in the relationship. I haven't found that my female partners are necessarily better lovers than my male partners have been, but there is a closeness that's difficult to put into words that exists with my female lovers that just isn't there with my male lovers.

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