i personally think that how many fantasy's you have is how many times you have had "kinky" sex, whatever that is!!
I have done most things but still have a few fantasy's left!!

Ive been lucky, the women i have been with have been willing to experiment with me.
So not only did i get to try their fantasy's but did some of mine too!!

So i suppose you are right in what you say that it is down to the specific person or persons involved!!

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