I think Ginger's right, although that in itself is not unusual. Whether you're, ahem, in front of a few hundred people in a theater (not that I'd know anything about that mind you) or having a quiet meal at home, it will matter most that it comes from the heart. My own opinion is that the more unexpected it is the better, though you do want to be fairly certain you know the answer ahead of time.

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Clever? Nah, I ran out of that years ago. But if you find this, let me know, k?
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In memory of my friend skip...
Go then, there are other worlds than these