I remember my anniversaries,both of them,lol.The trick here,is to remember that something good comes from everything we experience..There were good times in your relationship,or you wouldn't have tied the knot..If you had a child with that person..That's something to think positive about..Remembering the bad times will subside in time..It's usually easier to remember the tough times at first,but you'll be better off in the future..So will everyone involved..How I look at it is ..What could I have done differently..What should I do in the future,so this doesn't happen again..
Have a Great Day..It keeps them wondering what you're up to..