02-23-2005, 07:45 AM
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You feel this way and suggested he look into his responsibilities as a Dom?
He made another off the cuff remark (in jest, be it sexist or not, it was meant as a tension breaker), most likely because he felt uncomfortable being the center of our opposing views. Not a brilliant choice but he did try to clarify his position as he sees it in his relationship which did not coincide with your opinion. You have chosen to respond by chastizing him. It seems to be a pattern as has been viewed in other threads where your view does not match the situation and others disagree with you. If you are going to pipe up an opinion then you need to be prepared to have it questioned. While chastizing his attitude you might want to take 5 minutes to reflect on yours as well. I don't need you to tell Mark how he should or should not respond to me. You speak for yourself (especially where you spouted that respect your elders stuff, respect is earned). If this thread taught me anything it's that if I need clarification I should go to the source before I jump on someone for what I perceive. That's why I simply asked you to show me how you were drawing the conclusions you did.
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