Thanks everyone, I went home and talked to him about my concerns. We believe very much in honesty and not holding things in with one another. I explained it wasn't him, that I do trust him, but that I was just uncomfortable with the idea. He invited me along! Which may not go over to well with the rest of the fellows, but doing this together seems erotic to me as well. If he can have a lap dance... why can't I? Anyways, all your words really help..

Gratefully,

Jenny

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"You have your way. I have my way. As for the right way, the correct
way, and the only way, it does not exist." ~Friedrich Nietzsche