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Old 08-21-2004, 02:07 PM
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What PF didn't say, and I suspect he was avoiding it, is that you are no

longer the person you were when all this wonderful stuff was happening, and

neither is she. You can't go back.

The desire to recapture the heady rush is normal, and becomes a huge trap

for some people going through phases such as the dreaded mid-life crisis.

Find something to take your mind off it.

Finally, your new love may simply not have it in her (to coin a phrase) to be

a frenetic wildcat, and to push too hard may damage the love you share.

Good luck.
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