As others have said, I'm detecting a hint of whistfulness......that perhaps you'd like to be 'swept off your feet' from time to time, which is perfectly healthy.

Fussy and I often take on different roles in our love making, where one day I'm the one demanding it, and then next day he is. If you feel your relationship would benefit from a bit of role reversal from time to time (and whose doesn't?) then talk to your other half about it. You may need to work on her confidence a little - it takes a lot to play 'sex siren' after years of playing 'sex kitten' but every woman has both sides in her......trust me, we do!

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