You might be psyching yourself out. Thinking and worrying about it might be taking precedence over allowing yourself to enjoy it on a deeper level. Relax...it'll come. Meanwhile, your partner is satisfied and you are too, so keep on enjoying each other.


And practice safe sex...nothing kills the mood like a crying baby.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.