Porn_king, I can't say that I really have alot to offer as advice but being larger all my life I can relate to what you are saying. And I can tell you that while it may be hard for you to believe right now, because I used to think the same thing (no one can love me because of the way I look), looks aren't everything and it's what's on the inside that counts.

You mentioned that the two of you will be taking the same course at University, why not talk to her and see if she'd like to entertain the idea of some type of study group, help each other out, become friends, then see where things might lead.

Ok that's my input, but if you ever want to talk to someone who has been in your shoes, give me a shout, can't say that I would be of much help but I am a good listener *HUGS* Hang in there!

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