i do, thata a very nice answer, hell i didnt even know the question and im the guy who wrote it.

basically what it is, since i got big all the people i was close with have left me (my ex girlfriend and i split up mutually then she moved away) and i suppose ive associated my problem with loneliness.

the way i know we have things in common is i work in a supermarket (yeah yeah rubbish job but im payed well and it fits in with the times in at university) and i feel i cant work with anyone unless i atleast say something so ive got little snippets of information such as the fact that we have the same interest in films and are doing the same course at university in september, and ive overheard conversations shes had with friends there.

basically i have no idea why i posted it, i was just on a rant, theres no real question in here, but i am glad of any advice given, basically i know that im going to be seeing her alot more often at university, i guess i just wished to have some form of relationship by september, but looks like it can wait...