I have been both. I love being the tie-er but can really enjoy the power release of being the tie-ee when it's with someone I trust implicitly.

All my experiences have been positive. I have velcro bondage cuffs, handcuffs, etc., including this foxy spreader bar I got as a gift.

Rules...no tickling. Well not if you plan to untie me, cause I'm gonna hunt you down and kill you after.

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The practice of putting women on pedestals began to die out when it was discovered that they could give orders better from there.~ Betty Grable

If I wanted your opinion, I'd remove the duct tape and ask you for it.~ Me
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