08-18-2001, 03:30 AM
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Explorer/Adventurer
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Join Date: Aug 2001
Location: North Woods (USA)
Posts: 44
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Not a Nike Ad :-)
"Just do it!" A couple of ideas:
Schedule a sex nite once a week (or more). It doesn't have to be highly structured - it's just a commitment to spend time enjoying and exploring each other. (You can take turns planning the evening.)
Try a couple of video's... watch together, pay attention to and discuss what "gets you going."
I agree that you shouldn't worry about mutual orgasms. Just indulge yourselves. They'll cum. (Pun intended.)
One caveat: don't lose spontaniety. Planning and "working" at good sex can be fun, but sometimes you just do it.
Wally
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