You realize we're coming at this from the same place...pain, don't you?

I do understand, God how I do, it's just that I cannot and will not see an affair as being the solution.

I'm not judging you or anyone else, and I'm sorry if I made you feel you needed to defend yourself.
I often wonder why I always stumble right into this topic everywhere I go. (It always ends up the same way.) I guess its just wishing people would find another way, but there really is no point trying to explain it anymore. I would like to say that I'm not some cold hearted bitch just having a bad day, I've lived this, and I do understand.