Addictive?
Well, on nights when I am home alone, and in the mood for some serious "relaxation" my choices are;
A) Bathe, do hair and makeup, dress provacatively, then walk or call a cab, travel to a nightspot, dance drink, meet someone, let them seduce me, and have a WONDERFUL time, (most of the time anyway... well. Ok, sometimes it is in a dark doorway, or in a bathroom stall, or a even on a bathroom counter top, or the in a car backseat, SOMETIMES in a real bed in a nice hotel room, but I am on a Wanda Kitty tangent here) or;
B) reach in the night stand drawer, select a toy, close my eyes in my nice warm bed and just imagine "A" and have a decent orgasm.
The fact that I choose "A" so often tells me that they are not an addiction.
But I have found that they can be desensitizing if used to much directly on my clitoris. Another reason to choose "A"
I choose "B" when sitting at my desk at home though.

Wanda

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