for me it was many years after i lost my virginity as i found that disappointing and i only countinued to have sex after that because i am a horney bastard and needed to blow my load. sex was only slightl;y better than jerking off.

the defining sexual moments( plural) came with my third girlfriend who opened me up sensually. exhibitionism ( her parents front lawn, at the bus stop shelter, on the beach, on the hotel diving board with an audience, on top of the car in my drive way, on the beach, in the sea, etc) and play rape. she liked to pick a fight, get me all riled up or jealouse then she wiould kiss me passionately amd i would throw her on the ground rip off her clothes( literally, that cost us a bundler) and just fuck her hard to teach her a lesson. we also did erotic massages, etc.

so my defining moment had to be the 2 years we were together.

we did not end well (she cheated) and i never got the chance to thank her for exploring and developing my sexuality. but i am grateful and thankful, so are my girlfriends since.

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