On the odd occasion I end up in a chatroom, I'm very honest...
And I would never slam someone for being the same. People shouldn't push for information if they are afraid of the answer.
Ophelia, if I started chatting with you in a room and we were getting into some sexy, hot conversation , I wouldn't even ask your weight, and if you brought it up, I wouldn't care... we're online.
I would care if it's someone I'm going to actually meet, 'cause honestly most men care about physical appearance. That's also not to say I would expect a woman to be a super thin supermodel. Just appealing to me... (which covers a broad spectrum!) Anyway, don't let it get you down! Like Diva said, you get Odd Idiots in there!