I agree! This would be deal breaker for me. No lickin..no stickin!
But really what's worse is the fact that he does not care if you are satisfied. I think there are some things you and your boyfriend need to talk about. It sounds like there is more to this situation than a simple unwillingness to preform oral sex. You should talk to your boyfriend..not about the oral thing right away..find out if there is something on his mind..or bothering him. It could be he's stressed for some reason? If this does not seem to be the case...approach the oral issue..when he is fully awake...and in a good mood...and discuss how important it is to you. Don't attack him w/ it...just try and explain how important it is to you and see if he comes around.
It this is a simple matter of taking you for granted and leaving you to take care of yourself... See Lilith's post above.



Good luck hun!
~Eliza

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"The full moon is calling, the fever is high.
And the wicked wind whispers and moans.
You got your demons, you got desires
Well, I got a few of my own"
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