I went ahead and had plastic surgery, using back muscle as a start followed by an implant and then nipple reconstruction and a lift on the other breast to even things up a bit. When I'm dressed I look pretty normal and sometimes I even go out braless. The real breast still sits very slightly lower and the fake one doesn't move much when I walk but I doubt many people notice.

Unfortunately Mr Flames couldn't handle the changes to my body and everything fell apart where he's concerned.

It will be 9 years this weekend since my mastectomy and I am doing well.

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