kleclere, if I could have anything I wanted sexually in real life, I'd have an extremely passionate, caring man, who wasn't afraid to try new things in the bedroom, who put my needs before his own, who would entice me just with the sound of his voice or the touch of his lips up on my neck, and with whom I had a deep, inner connection...much more than friendship or love or anything else we have a word to describe.
Fortunately, I know that such an animal exists. Unfortunately, as much as I love him, I know it's not my husband. Funny how compromises come into play.
Steph...hmmmm...that's a hard question. It's difficult to pick just one, so how about a series? When a friend of mine and I were dating, we used to "lunch" together. Several times a week, I'd swing by his office and pick him up, and then we'd head over to his apartment, about five minutes away.
I don't remember that much food was eaten during those one-hour lunch periods.
In fact, one time my friend's boss called him on the fact that he always seemed to be hungry when he returned from lunch...asked to smell his fingers. I'm still half-mortified.
Next up....how 'bout SugarSprinkles?