Hubby loves it... at first I was afraid of hurting him, but once we started it worked out fine. Lots of lube and relaxation. Best position for us is spooning. The only problem I have is with those damn harnesses. Haven't found one that doesn't slip, or one that I haven't had to secure super tight so much so it can cut off the circulation.

I like to put on vibrating panties underneath the harness, and the dildo vibrates as well. So I get to cum right along with him. We recently purchased a dildo that will cum (warm water), haven't got it in the mail yet, so he can experience the feeling of ejaculation - as close as he can. That is going to be a fun night!