I have convinced my SO that I enjoy assplay and hav really started to get her onboard...She is very happy with her fingers(me too).. We have 2 butt plaugs 1 vibrates...she puts the plug in me then i go in her...We recently purchased a strapon...We are playing with that know...Came with a nice size dildo that has a slite bend..May try different dildos to see what feels the best..on a side note she asked if she cud dildo my ass with a bannana..We havent done this yet but I was happy to see her show interest in assplay