I've actually noticed a trend in the few people I've had this conversation in person with. Those that have to be in control in view of the public seem to prefer to be submissive sexually. I'm not sure on the opposite side though, if those that are the "grunts" in the work force prefer to be in control in the bedroom. Personally, I don't know which group I fall in.

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"BOY: On a hot summer night, would you offer your throat to the wolf with the red roses? GIRL: Will he offer me his mouth? BOY: Yes. GIRL: Will he offer me his teeth? BOY: Yes. GIRL: Will he offer me his jaws? BOY: Yes. GIRL: Will he offer me his hunger? BOY: Yes. GIRL: Again, will he offer me his hunger? BOY: Yes! GIRL: Yes. BOY: On a hot summer night, would you offer your throat to the wolf with the red roses? GIRL: Yes. BOY: I bet you say that to all the boys!" -Meatloaf