I will definitely keep all of you up-to-date. But as you said, we will try to keep our expectations low. And that is a challenge right now. My SO is over-planning/thinking the whole thing. She's going on about if there will be really attractive men there, or if there will be very "large" guys, or what the women will be like. She doesn't want us to get involved with her friend as she would feel weird about it (part of the ground rules we discussed as Citrus suggested). It's a full-time job trying to keep her grounded.