Hi Cave Girl
LDR are hard to say the least. My best friend and i were that way.he was here here i live now and i lived in Arizona. I moved here to get a new start with the now ex hubby.. ok so that didn't work. He and i did end up getting married and he is my soulmate.

Cavey
you have to tell him your concerns and make him listen. Its the only hope to get on the right track again.
Good luck and PM anytime