You never said WHEN you were to be married. Are you engaged with the intention to set a date at a later time? Do you have a date already? Could this be her way of making you set an earlier date or just to set a date already?

Is her religion one in which the rules to live by will change her drastically? Some religions forbid lots of things that we normally take for granted such as, music, holidays, entertainment (movies/television), sexual activity...etc. Do you know her new found religion and understand it enough to live by it with her? Or...is she making rules through interpretation that may be to her benefit only?

Lotsa questions to ask yourself hun!

Welcum to Pixies hudguy! Will you post again to let us know how we're helping so far?

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