JassWolf...Hello! And may I say...WELCUM TO PIXIES!

TY for your concern and for taking time to reply. I agree with you wholeheartedly and I assure you that BIL ONLY has sis's very best interests at heart when he demonstrates shame and embarrassment for her. I've rarely known a man who loves his wife as much despite the numerous quirks, ups, downs and in-between's they've had in their life together. He is truely devoted to sis and I trust his judgement completely!

I just know he has thought of everything you have said about her care. He'll deduce the situation and do what's best for her...to the best of his ability. There are better hospitals to take her to (not that the hospital she's in sucks) but they are out of his state and so he wants to get the best help in the immediate vicinity if he can. If he can't...he'll take her to the ends of the earth if necessary!

TY so much for the good wishes and I hope to see you around the boards!

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