03-14-2006, 06:59 PM
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Unemployed Food Critic
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Join Date: Sep 2003
Location: San Diego, CA
Posts: 124
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the clit is not some mythological land
a guy is often sensitive down there after he cums
foreplay is important and can start with simply talking...doesn't always have to be physical
communication is key, don't be afraid to say what feels good when it does or ask questions (in sexy ways)....don't be afraid to talk about stuff outside sex either and be open about fantasies (no matter how kinky they are, so don't judge eachother...accept).
We all share the same basic places that turn us on, but sometimes some people are more sensitive in certain places, or more or less sensitive in those places than other people. Make sure you know what areas really turn eachother on or what areas u have to be careful with. An example is I know some girls who love their nipples played with roughly and then some who if I nibble at all it hurts them...it really depends on the person.
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