My first THREESOME (FMF)
 

Ok I need help....

I have been offered a chance to be in a threesome. I really want to but it is with a really good girlfriend of mine and her boyfriend. I am not worried about being attracted to the guy because honestly he is not my type. So there is nothing there. But I need to know what to ask so we make sure all the cards are on the table. Any advise is helpful.....

I just dont want it to be weird afterwards....

"Discretion assured and EXPECTED"........to ensure no details ever leave the room......have fun!!!!!.....you got my mind wandering tonight!!!! :}

wtf was I thinking???....I assumed you wanted discretion.....but...feel free to snap a few photos and post at your leisure :)

Well, first of all, ignore Jbh3's advice. We all want desperately to hear about how it went. If you don't do this you will always wonder about it in frustration. Talk to your g/f about ground rules and tell her if you have any major no-no's. Other than that, try to relax and enjoy it for what it is. Sex and great fun.
Good luck and remember to tell us about it afterward.

I had one with my bff and a guy she was seeing about 12 years ago. No lasting weirdness, but I think the experience would have been better had I been sexually attracted to both parties...and I wasn't really comfortable doing very much with her. My suggestion is not to do it with a super-close friend.

Keep in mind, you can't entirely control that. You can only control your own reaction, and how awkwardly you interact with the people involved. Their interactions with you and with each other are their own responsibility.

The big thing is that you won't have any feelings for him afterwards and that everyone will be cool with it. Im sure that it will feel a little different afterwards, but that's normal. Given that your g/f invited you, I think it will be fun.

Enjoy and tell us how it goes!!!!

Good luck!

;)

...it's been almost a year....what happened....lol

Ok...to update you on that encounter..it never happened. We just decided that we didn't want it to be weird between us. So we just didn't do it.


BUT NOW....

As of May 7 I am going to be in my first girl on girl act. This is a go. We have discussed this and really really really want each other. Her boyfriend is going to be there too and if i am interested then we all will play. I have spoken with both of them and we are all in agreement. This is something they have done before and are good with it. I want to learn all about it and am really ready personally to try this openness. We are hoping that if it all works out then we will be doing this on a regular basis.

We are taking pics and I might post some of them.

Will keep you posted.

But now I need some advise...having that I have not ever eaten another womans "kitty"...what advise can you give me so I wont seem clumsy when I am playing with her.

She has agreed to me the aggressor in this situation and when I feel comfortable I can do her. She knows I have not done this before and that makes her even hotter...her words exactly.

So what can you tell me???

greeneyes,
As a guy who enjoys going down on women, be gentle not rough, start slow and let your passion and her reactions guide you. Use your fingers inside her. Use your tongue both to lick and to push inside her. Enjoy it. Don't focus too much on her clit, it's not a race to see how quick you can make her cum. If you're into it and she enjoys it, play with her ass too. NEVER go from ass back to front with a finger. Once it's in the back it only goes there. Flavored lube may be fun or chocolate syrup, whipped cream. Her reactions will tell you what she likes but don't just do that one thing. Keep changing it up and tease her a bit before going back to what makes her moan the most. Reach up and pinch her nipples and play with her breasts. She may even like licking your fingers while you're playing, again her reaction is key. Basically it's the same rules as making love with anyone. Pay attention to your partner(s) and they will guide you. Don't be a one trick pony and have fun. If something doesn't really work, laugh it off and relax.

Well, that's disappointing.

TGE, the best advice I have heard from women who have tried this is to do what you would like to have done to you. Hope this helps you some. And hoping it is all you wish it to be.

just updating.....

the first date was canceled due to her father in ICU....but we will reschedule....

Ug. Good reason to cancel. Hope things go OK from here on out.

spoke with the him part this morning....it is on for the 21st....woo hoo.