What a guy/girl needs to know about sex.
 

So i decided to start this thread about what people need to know about sex for those that do not have alot of experience. Come on people lets collect the best techniques and positions etc.

Hmm....now let me see. I can certainly provide a list of the things I find myself saying most regularly on other threads here at Pixies:

What a guy needs to know:
1. Size really doesn't matter. It doesn't. Really.
2. Women who really love sex are not necessarily promiscuous.
3. Women who don't want to have sex with you are not 'inhibited' or 'repressed'...they may just have standards that you don't reach.
4. It takes more than showing a woman your cock to turn her on.


What a woman needs to know:
1. Men love breasts...no matter how horrible you happen to think yours are, to men, they are wonderful, so stop worrying about them.
2. The right man will be attracted to a smart, sassy woman who stands up for herself and doesn't allow him to walk all over her. If he doesn't like it when you are your own woman, kick him to the curb.
3. The fashion industry is predominantly run by gay men......don't let THEM dictate to you who/what is sexy. What do they know about hips and waists and breasts?
4. Be open to new experiences and communicate your needs to your partner.

here's what i know: sex is personal. likes/needs/wants/turn-ons change from person to person and sometimes even from day to day with each person. the best way to find out more about sex it to talk about it openly and honestly with your partner.

:)

Real life is not like a porn movie....or an article in Forum :)

Sex is what you do.

Love/lust is how you feel about it.

Pixies is where you come to enjoy it.

Is that why I never get my pizza delivered my a sexy woman who want sex?

No, just wrong Pizza company.

aw crap!

i know several guys who think they are not good eough to get a gal... think they need cunning plans to gain the attention of the opposit sex.

Just be yourself. there really is no point in trying to be anyone else. And look at all the people out there already with girls they love... guys of all shapes and sizes and intelects...

Just relax, be bold occasionaly and treat people the way they deserve to be treated.

You need to respect and love yourself before you'll end up in a healthy relationship.

Good sex is about having fun. Even when the sex isn't great, if you're having fun it won't matter.

Take the time to enjoy your partner -- use all your senses. Taste them, touch them, smell them, and gaze longingly. Say something appreciative. Listen for a response.

Don't forget to laugh. Some of my best partners haven't been the greatest lovers, but they were the nicest people.

Talk about it with your partner. Tell them what you like, and want. If you aren't in a place in your relationship that you can talk open and honestly about everything then you aren't in a place in your relationship that you can be having sex.

I think some of us missed the message in this post.......



I think he wants to ask advice for people who are having sex for the first time or are only new to the whole sex game. So to answer his statement on best technique and positions etc......

Well 69er is always a good starter followed by doggy. If that doesn't rock your boat then there is always girl on top and of course the age old favourite missionary which I think now adays is overlooked as most people just want to "get down and dirty" and just want to go at it fast and hard. Each to their own.

Did we?


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No BiBi - I don't think we did......I think we offered advice that was far more pertinent and useful than trying to compile some kind of amateurs' sex manual.

osuche's first sentence say's alot!!!!! (hint hint)