Sub or Dom?
 

Playing off Divas seducer or seducee thread, in a role playing situation, which would you rather be: the submissive or dominant partner? In each situation, what activities would you enjoy? Be specific and spelling counts.;)

please...?
 

well, with Souls I love to be dominated, theres just something about a man coming in and with complete assurance that you'll obey, ordering you to do something. anything from bring me the paddle to sit over there and dont move to SPREAD THEM.

but with my girlfriend I have discovered how wonderful it is to have a woman kneeling before me, eyes down head bowed bending to my every whim. a soft spoken "Yes Mistress" goes a long way to dampen the nethers.....

Always
Kyttn

Definitely dominant. I am the woman in charge :) Some would say I like wearing the pants in my relationship, but I've found the best times are when neither of us wear pants at all...

Kate

most of the time i enjoy being the sub. i can go from the simple commands to all-out erotic slave (looking for a dom right now, just thought i'd add that in). I love being able to give up control of my life every once in a while, even if it's just in that one area.

I would have to say a little of both...:D

There are times when I just want him to be in total control...grabbing my head and him forcing his cock down my throat...love a forceful man...Mmmmm..

But then there are times when I just want to be the sexual Bitch that I am... and fuck him as hard as I can....;) And make him scream in joyful pain.....ohhh yeah.....

All depends on the mood....and today I feel like I want to be dominated...:D ;) :p

Well Personally
 

I would definately rather be submissive. I have tried to be dominating, but I spent too much time fantasizing about what I wanted to do and not actually doing it. I'm sure my husband would love for me to be more in control and initiate sex more often, but there is just something about fealing his strength when he's on top pinning me to the bed. And I Love to be spanked. Mmmm just talking about it turns me on, and sometimes that's all the foreplay we go for, he mentions what's on his mind and I'm ready to have sex right then...hey it's the thought that counts right! Besides I feel I have enough control in the rest of my relationship, I can't imagine being a bitch in the bedroom too!

Kissy

ps if spelling counts I'm screwed...:o

well I geuss I will be the first guy to post and say that I love it when she takes control but at the same time having her do what ever I tell her is great to I guess it depends on the mood

I wonder which I would be......LMAO :D........ but in all honesty just every once in a while it would be nice to be dominated;)...although I am not sure could pull off being submissive with out cracking up laughing:D

although I am not sure could pull off being submissive with out cracking up laughing. sounds like a challange

well Lover Boy........If you think you've got what it would take........LMAO (see I am laughing already):D

you think your the only one that can crack a whip?? wich way to the dead sea?

Like a lot of bisexual women, I am dominant with one sex, more passive, almost submissive with the other... now you have to guess which!

In mystery,

WW

Although I am bisexual, I have never given much thought to the dom-sub thing either way. I am happy to do either, as long as I'm doin it

I just go with how the situation makes me feel....:p

OK Wanda, I'll bite...er I mean lick...whatever. I am guessing you are more sub with men and dom with women. Or maybe its the other way around. Am I right? Anyway, I started this thread because I, like Red Rose, like it either sub or dom, depending on what my partner and I feel like at the time. I think its just the idea of playing whatever role that gets me off.

Definitely into both depending on how she feels too. I'm a Libran - guess that makes me want to give as good as I get.