How to give a good blowjob, from a man's view point!
 

Not that I am naive or anything, but some good wet pointers for a good blow-job, from you men would be nice, what say you...

Get into it
 

Don't just go up and down. Focus mostly on the head by using your tongue, especially on the underside of the head. Also suction is good, and if u r REALLY careful a LIGHT dragging of the teeth can be nice.

ClassyDJ:cool:

I slowly start kissing my way down toward his belly, with my hand massaging his balls...when I reach it's head..I slowly and very lightly kiss is and circle the head with my tongue. I don't put it in my mouth right away.. after teasing the head for about 10-15 minutes... I grab the cock in one hand, balls in the other and take it all in... in a slow rhytmic motion..all the way down my throat it goes... slowly at first, then faster with my lips and tongue wrapped firmly around it.. I insert my tongue and explore it's tiny hole..mmmmmm..when I feel like it's about to explode..I back off a little as I don't want it to cum right away..a good blow job should last an hour or more... I then put the balls in my mouth and give them a good tongue bath... I do the same with the anus...
I then return to the head and suck a bit harder and faster..then the love nibbles start.....when he is about to explode... I make sure he is all the way down my thraot...and I suck every delicious ounce out of him...mmmmmm...I don't stop the blow job there, I keep it going until it's nice and hard again...

Ahhhhh geeee I am so sorry...you wanted a man's opinion...sorrryyyyyyyyyyyy :D :D :)

oooogaaawwwwwwwddddddddddd
 

That's ok, Diva.... this man could not have described the ideal BJ any better! I especially like your point about how the BJ ain't over just 'cause he cums, keep working it (gently, of course, I get sensitive after the squirt) till it's hard again! Of course, you will get fucked again, and what's wrong with that! One thing I wanna know, Diva, is do you really take him down your throat when he cums? Seems like that would make most women gag, do you have a special technique? But your blow-by-blow account certainly worked for me, I could not improve on it at all...

Lasting over an hour? Geez Louise...

:p

Yes I do Scotzoidman...all the way down...no special technique required..I just love it when hits the back of my throat..mmmmm
maybe that's why I don't gag....lol...but like I said in another post cum is an aquired taste! If you don't like it..of course you will gag...lol..

and yes....over an hour.....it's my specialty... ;) :D

Diva,

care to give some lessons to my wife???

how 'bout me next diva?
 

hey diva... if you ever want to practice i think i might be available:D
you just described the most amazing blowjob, i hope i get on like that some time...

Nutworld...sorry sweetie but I won't teach your wife...took me a long time to learn how to give a great blowjob. And the only reason I know how is because my mate(s) over the years, have told me what felt good and what didn't...communicating to your partner what you want and don't want is all part of a relationship...so just talk to her...she might surprise you!!! (I hope ;) )

As for practice duckyboy..don't need it..lol...I am already good! :D :D ;)

~~OMG Diva!!~~

I am not a man but that description of a blow job even turned me on...!!!! :D :)

Keep on sucking !!! :D

Just another helpful hint to other women reading this post:

It is extremely important to wait until the man is almost desperate to feel your mouth on his penis. I like to kneel between his legs and very slowly lick my way up his thighs. I then use a technique that I call the "Hot house." Use very warm breath with your mouth open to heat his balls and penis. The man will feel you between his legs and the closeness of your mouth. If you very softly touch the tip of your tongue to his penis in different places as you do the Hot house, he'll go crazy wanting you to take him all the way into your mouth. When you do, be sure to drop your mouth straight down over it, covering his penis entirely with your hot, wet lips and tongue. It's a great technique for both participants.

LoveDiva... CAn I marry you? Your description got me so hot that I almost exploded on the spot. ANd then Blue Eyed Girl cums along and makes it even better. Wow... what a board!

Wow a marriage proposal!!!! Wooohooo!!! :D :D
Wonder if Kim could marry us Prophet? :D



Here is something to help your ladies along...I posted it in another post but just in case you didn't see it..hahahaha :D

*boing*
 

Diva, I can say with all truthfulness that I have NEVER had a BJ like that before! I have some good ones but never that good. WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW!!!

I wonder...
 

How many guys printed out Diva's news article and left it laying around? :D

One thing I'd add... (doesn't sound like a problem with the ladies who've posted here!) Whatever the technique, do it because you want to and don't hesitate to make it clear that you want to - in action and words.

It seems to me that some women don't want to - or don't think they should - and it becomes a "he's doing me so I guess I should do him" sorta thing. Personally, that's not such a great turn on.

As Diva, says, it's all about communication.

thank you Diva for the advice

very good diva just one thing when you see some pre cum
on the end hold the head with two fingers take a finger and
rub it on the hole to collect some and look up and smile at
him then lick and suck the finger clean or use the pre cum like
a lip gloss then lick your lips olso workes ofter he has come
or use his finger and clean him up not the feel of it its the
image that get to him

what gives a good blowjob.....is the love of doing it.....there is an art to a good blow job......and if a women dont get into it....then its just not going to happen....or at least not be one of the best blow jobs you can get

Axe~ I am gonna write in to AVON and suggest "Yumm Cumm" as their new lip gloss...:D:D:D

use the tongue and don't neglect the head. after that, it's all repetition. we ain't talkin brain transplant surgery here.

Oooh, axe31, I love the precum suggestion. My guy precums more than some men cum!

I love a good wet, sloppy blow job with lots of tongue action and ball sucking. some nights my partner just drives me crazy by inserting a wet finger in my ass and fuckin me as she sucks. man.oh man. gets me every time.

another trick is to deep throte and takeing the balls as well
seen this in pornos had it done on me i cant do it tho feel
good

I'll have to agree with Wally.Knowing;that your partner wants to;
is everything.As said;communication;is the most important thing;in
the satisfaction;of your partner.I have been married for 37yrs;and
most of it relates;to the fact;that we discuss everything.After all
that time;there is no embarrassment with each other! Irish
P.S.As I have said before:There is no such thing as a bad BJ;some
are better then others;but;none are bad!

you guys have a joke of a website if thread discussions are removed.

well, maybe if you hadn't decided to have asshole role-playing hour, it wouldn't be necessary.

Winter---First;you insult other people;now it's a website!Is anything;in the world;to your liking?It must be nice to be perfect and a legend in your own mind! Irish

OK here is my ???????

If guys are so visual....is it a waste to give a BJ in the dark?????? :D:p

Lilith---In order for us to give a proper evaluation;you have to provide;all of the necessary ingrediants! Irish

A blowjob is never a waste...yeh, I love to watch a good bj almost as much as getting one...but if it's dark, light or in between, it's always good...in fact, sometimes the wife blindfolds me, & goes down...I can provide my own visuals ;)

if ya got any kinda imagination, ambient lighting shouldn't be an issue.

Diva, I understand your techniques and have used almost all of them before ;) But in addition to Wally's statement, if women (or men) don't want to give blow jobs they don't have to... but I personally think they're fun :D

Usually my partner(s) enjoy themselves a whole lot, but even guys sometimes say "oh you don't have to do that" when I'm eager to do so... I wonder why that is..... any imput on the subject?
~AlphaKitten <mreow>

ps- I usually do it anyway because I want to! haha

It's personal preference, but here goes. Lets assume you done all the teasing provoking and general getting him fired up enough to turn of the football and you're getting down to action. Play with it, stroke it (silky, isn't it) and let him know you're enjoying yourself. You're hafway there already.
Remember that the most sensitive bits are near the glans, so that's where you'll need to concentrate. So if you can't swallow to the pit of your stomach, don't worry. Concnetrate on the plum and you'll be appreciated. Your hands are as important as your mouth. Try cupping his balls with one hand and wank him with the other, sucking and kissing the head all the time.
As he gets really excited trying holding the skin back gently; from that position pull the skin back further so it's tight. That pulls on all the little nerve endings around the base of the glans. Now give it a twist to tighten up even further - not more than quarter of a turn! A repeat dose as required.

When he looks like coming, stop dead for 30 seconds and then give him a bit more. The longer you can keep this up, the harder the volcano is going to blow.

When he is coming, cover your teeth and bite the end of it in rapid pulses - about twice a second. Hang on to your hat when you do this because it will be a wild ride.

Try not to pull a face when you've got cum in your mouth - after all, it's his and you love him. Kiss and give it back to him if you want but don't make a big deal of yuck-spit-spit. After all, he just loves to get wet from ear to ear when you're riding his face!

When he looks like coming, stop dead for 30 seconds and then give him a bit more. The longer you can keep this up, the harder the volcano is going to blow.

True

******** lickin good *wink*
 

Um well this is my first post so I will be plain and brief. I have had some experience in the fellatio (and cuningilus) department and I know I little. I totally agree to some level with the woman who said to tease the man with the "hot house" technique, but then again that might make him blow his load a lil early if you tease him too much. I recommend using all available hands. While pleasuring him with your mouth (lips, tounge, breath) use one hand to gently tug his balls or squeeze them a little bit. You can use your other hand to play with his nipples, run them through his hair, etc. Or if you have a small mouth like I do and it pains you to do much vigorous activity on a man w/ a large, errrr tool, you can suck and lick the head of his penis with your mouth and with your hand jerk off his shaft and play with his balls. I also recommend grabbing his rear. I just like to incorporate a little handplay into my fellatio. I hope I didn't spoil the original intent b/c I am a girl. Good day

Would you like to come to Oklahoma and conduct a class for the women here?

First...you gotta luv what you do,giving good head is an art form.You can read all how to's and pointers,but if you don't enjoy it yourself it just ain't happening.I absolutley luv sucking my bf's cock ...in fact lately its pretty much all i think about lol. I get just as turned on giving him head as he gets,getting it....and beleive me we are both SMILIN after:)

Hummmm IronWood, OK seems a bit outta the way for me. I'm not much with words, I am much better with tutorials. Anywho I was pretty much a prude until about a year or two ago. It is amazing how much you can learn in just one year!!! *wink* I also know how to give pleasure w/ hands, feet, hair, and hummm less mentioned places...I know enough positions to put Monica Lewensky (Lewenski? anyway...) back in grade school when it "cums" to sex. But don't look me up, I'm taken. :-P

most is said
 

i think most things i enjoy are already told.
but one thing i really like a lot is getting licked at the underside of the head, there where the foreskin is fixed.
another thing i like while reciving a bj is getting my ass massaged or even played and penetrated my anus...
:D

hey i know a good web site about how to give head, but sadly, for some, its in german... but with nice teaching pix

http://www.geocities.com/producer_usus/azb.html


cu f'x

I heartily agree that whether you like giving BJs makes a huge different in the enjoyment for both people. I totally agree with what diva said also, with one exception. PLEASE don't ever think that just because your partner's gag reflex is triggered means that she doesn't like what she's doing. I ADORE giving BJs, including swallowing, and really get into it. But I have a hard time taking all of my partner at times without gagging. Heck, I gag just trying to brush my back teeth! Anyway, I just don't want you guys to automatically think that it's a sure sign she really doesn't want to be giving you that BJ.