And it's Bama with the rebound!!!!!!
 

okay so..... lets talk about rebound relationships....

I went from a 6-7 year relationship with a woman who was 10 years older than me very controlling and didn't allow me friends and in less than a week from leaving her I was swallowing my sorrows among other things with a young man 3 years my junior who had not known a womans attentions previously. I've been accused of faulty thinking based on rebound. I have not been single since I was 15. has my entire dating life been rebound???

any other thoughts?


Kyttn

It's hard to say....if you learned what you wanted and needed from the first relationship, maybe this one isn't so much of a rebound as a fresh start

I went from a man 12 years older than me, through 4 or 5 other men one woman and then I broke my only two rules to be with my darling. my rules no one younger than me and no virgins. as of yet I don't regret it. I'm hoping you're right sweetgirl!

Rebound or fresh start, it's always a tough call. As long as you're not transferring negative feelings from the previous bad relationship to the new one, or taking unresolved anger out on the new lover (two sides of the same coin, IMO), it's all good.

Love the one you're with.

My first major relationship lasted 3 years, and I grew to hate his neediness...this relationship (which is pretty much over, except for selling the house and filing papers) taught me that I need to be with someone who adores me and wants to make me happy (and fulfilled). I'm hoping that those lessons will help me choose better next time, so I vote for fresh starts :)

He's one of the most accepting people I've ever been with. I'm not ashamed of my body and other imperfections with him. maybe its because he has nothing else to compare me with other than movies and magazines and he knows that all make believe but it's wonderful, this is the most low-pressure relationship I've ever been blessed with

^^^ the wise man speaks, & his :2cents: worth is well invested, even adjusted for inflation ;)

Then stick with it as your happy and things are going the way you want them to. Just remember that you are in charge of your life and destiny, no one else.

He's/The relationship is like a yummy bowl of vanilla ice cream just waiting for you to make him/it into a sundae. You can add any toppings you want. If you don't like it you can scrape it off and pour more fudge on:D

or add some Kahlua and make a mudslide??

I dated a woman for 5 years. When I realized that I couldn't wake up to her every day for the rest of my life, I ended things. I met a woman a few weeks later. We started dating immediately, moved in together in a few months... and will celebrate our 10th wedding anniversary next week.

The bad part is that we are on different continents for our 10th. LOL

We are all exploring in different ways, all our lives. As long as you land in a new place naked, (without baggage) you may be able to explore together for a long time. :thumb:

I realize that I come with lots of baggage lol hell two of my ex boyfriends are (now) pixies!

Welcome Ditch420!


but I also realize that none of that is Lord Snows' problem or his fault. there are times I flinch there are times I panic and can't breathe but thankfully he's patient and kind and knows I'm damaged.

Ditch and Souls both know how little I value myself as does LS and some of my other darling pixies who've had the misfortune to stumble upon me during a dark time. it's evident in my first posts to Pixies lo those many years ago. I'm very thankful for my pixie family. and I love each and every one of you for the support you give one another and me.


Kyttn

You know we are glad to be here for you, just don't corrupt that young fellow any more than he needs. :thumbs:

too late
 

I think the poor boy is beyond saving now. that was part of the why behind my no virgins rule. I keep telling him "most girls dont do this.... most girls need foreplay.... many don't swallow..... etc" giggle

It's important for him to know that not every girl is the same, though :)

have to say
 

He is outstanding and well educated in many things female. he was less embarrassed than I in the feminine aisle. God his mother did wonderful things for this young man. I actually e-mailed her and told her she raised a wonderful young man giggle you shoulda seen the look on his dads face on that one

Unfortunately you give me way too much credit on a lot of things. Most of the time I bury what I don't want to show. In a way we're both damaged. For the record, I was corrupted long before we got together, just a little less than now. Yes, I blame my mother for most of what I know about women. She started teaching me young about certain things, like that wonderful time of month where all they want is chocolate, etc.

Right! That's my job :hot:

Wouldn't it be more correct in assuming that Bama and I corrupt each other? I'm sure Lil wouldn't mind being corrupted by you though Prophet.

HA HA. You can not corrupt the corruptor :D

You have a point. It's on the top of your head, but you do have one. J/K.

You know I think that I'm spoiling him more than corrupting him..... what would you have done if your first had been as ......sexually >ahem< Liberated as to delight in having her mouth fucked and taking your cock deep into her throat loving the feel of your cock cumming in her mouth and swallowing every drop as she sucked you dry? or licked and sucked her own contributions off your cock and balls? or had loud, unabashed trembling unable to walk orgasms with your cock buried ballsdeep in her tight ass? not to mention that neither my ass or pussy had been used for penetration in 7 years because my g/f wasn't into penetration helps keep everything tight for certain. or begged you to let her jerk your cock while she buries her own fingers in her pussy and toys with her clit until she moans in orgasm while you watch and then asked you to cum on her tits? I mean come on I think the poor boy is spoiled, I hope he'll have higher standards for his next relationship.



Kyttn

:faint:


I think he's spoiled too. :banghead:










......... I know because I haven't been spoiled like that in quite a while. :boink:

I've been spoiled my whole life. Perks of being an only child. Why should it stop now? I realize that not every girl is as open minded, but right now I'm not looking to find someone else. I'm quite happy being spoiled by the beautiful Bama. Besides, she has a lot to teach, and hopefully I've been as good a student to her as she's been a teacher to me.

I tried that path a long time ago and realized that anything I could possible corrupt Lilth with, she would turn against me. So we have the mutual corruption respect and my ever increasing naughty dreams of her.....

That's so sweet. In a perverted pixie kind of way.

smacks lord snows ass. shouldn't you be in bed?

Why? I don't have work in the morning, and it's not like you're here right now. If you were in my bed, I would definitely be in it.

silly boy

I'll bet I could.




I know I could. :nod:

Just remember, turn about is fair play. And I always play fair. ;)

turn about is fair play, but! if you turn around, it's foreplay!!!!

Mmmmm, buttttttt... :D

She plays the fairs, all the burlesque houses on the circuit and the local table dancing bars. :undies:






:doorpeek:

Hey, the local county fair opens here in a week and a day...

kill me.....please... at least my head will stop hurting
 

I don't believe in "the one" I'm a skeptic. forever doesn't last as long as it used to
I believed in it a long time ago..... but the glass was smaller then easier to fill; now it's less than half full there are days I don't know whats wrong with me. Like spending time with Lord Snow..... I see him every other weekend, lately I have had a hard time leaving dry-eyed for my 120 mile drive home can't sleep sunday night think about him all day monday by weds. I'm usually starting to wonder if I should go back and see him again or if I should just break up with him because I'm afraid he's making a mistake in settling for me at this point in his life, no matter for how long. Thinking about trying to convince him to find a girl closer to his own age and closer to him so they can actually date without him having to go home and sleep with her. I know I'm not healthy and he shouldn't start with someone as damaged as I am. When I feel like I'm starting to care too much my first instinct is to bolt, or press my partner to. By the time I have my next 3 day weekend ( every other) I'll be craving his touch so bad it's almost physically painful but it seems like I'm numb between times.

Although my addiction might have helped with that I buried my discontent with my previous relationship in becoming a pill popper any painkiller or muscle relaxer my mom the sickly one had lots of pretty pills including her Ultram (tramadol) .... taking more than 16 50 mg tabs of Ultram every day lets ya feel almost nothing..... I'm on my 6th night/day without them.the migraines have almost passed. the sad thing is that I'm crashing at my folks' place so it's not like I can throw the pills out so I face the temptation every time I walk past the kitchen....sigh. damaged.

He's an adult, and should "start" with someone he thinks is worthwhile spending time with. Maybe that really is you. Hey, it's his decision to make, preferably with your input.



Maybe put them in a lock box and give the keys to your folks? Would that help?