Me, my man, and porn

[NurseTraci]

I am only 20 years old. THe gentleman that I am with now was my first and only partner. Due to that fact, I am starting to get curious. Up until 4 months ago, I had never once seen any pornography. ((Shocking, I know..)) When I first watched porn, I was a little disgusted by it and swore that I would never watch it again. Since that incident, my loving boyfriend has tried to keep porn out of the house. Well, due to divine intervention of my dear friend, I now have a porn collection, its small but its a start. I now enjoy watching porn. It is the greatest mood setter. But my boyfriend doesn't know. How do I tell him that I own porn? Should I tell him that I own porn? How can I incorporate that into our sex life? I dont want our sexual encounters to revolve around porn, but it would be nice to have it there every once in a while? And does anyone have a favorite porn movies that I just have to own? LOL!!!

[Aqua]

Well, since I don't know what kind of porn you have, (mags or videos), it's hard to be specific. Just ask him the next time he's over if he'd like to watch a sex tape (if you have vids) as a warm up for sex. Or suggest you read some erotic stories or look at some sexy pics as part of your foreplay. Let him know you have some quite readily available and I really doubt he'll complain. Just don't get in the habit of using it all the time, or it could end up with your sex life "revolving" around it.

[souls_cry2000]

Traci,

If you have videos pop one in one evening when he's over. Then ask him if he likes what he sees or if he minds, something to that effect. While you're talking to him unzip his pants and begin to fondle him a bit. If he doesn't answer right away or says yes lick the head of his cock. Then get him to tell you how much. The more descriptive/honest he gets in his dialogue the more of a little sexkitten you become as you work his pipe in that pretty little mouth of yours. It's just a suggestion. It's alittle more fun than just asking him his opinion outright.

[Stinger]

I know he would probably love to watch or read whatever you have. I would just bring up that if he remembers the time where you didn't want any of that material in the house and bring up that you would like to do it together once. Go ahead that you had to do it on your terms first to feel comfortable with it and that you now would like to have the two of you do it together. I don't think he would object much. ;)

[PlayfulTigress]

Just be honest with him. Honesty is the best policy. It is true for all of life's friendships and relationships. People change. If your boyfriend and you truly love one another, he will not get "mad" at you for suddenly having an interest in porn.

And, a lil' side note, it can be very erotic watching porn with your partner while cuddling on the couch or curled up in bed.

:)


~Linds

[Oldfart]

Sorry, can't get that out of my mind.

NurseTraci, some of the soft-core pics are classics.

See if your Video-library has "The Case of the Smiling Stiffs"

"The Erotic Adventures of Zorro" or any of the good, funny

tits and bum flicks of the early 80's.

Introduce it as comedy and grow from there.

Ball's in your court, be inventive.

[ROCKHARD]

Just put in a movie one night and say that your kind of interested in watching porn with him and I dont think You will here him complain. Least I never heard of a man complaining about watching porn with their wife or g/f.